I miss my ex. He wants me back and we haven't seen each other for years but he has still held on and talked me into going back. I think I want to but my family and friends would really disappointed. What should I do?
>>18468571
Hold on OP. Is your ex a good person? How was your relationship previously? If he had to convince you, I'm sorry to say that it's probably not a good idea.
>>18468586
We had some ups and downs. He had some anger issues and our fights got pretty bad. When we weren't fighting it was awesome. Also I kind of only told people bad things about him while we were together...Apparently he has dealt with his issues and he now has a stable job and changed his life. Lost weight, reaching his goals, job, has a place. Before he was living with his parents, no job and didn't do much.
>>18468586
He never physically abused me but he was verbally abusive and he wrecked a few of my things
Bad idea. Leave the past in the past.
>>18468603
But nobody understands, it's like we were meant for eachother
>>18468615
If you were meant for each other he wouldn't be your ex. Also by your own admission, he abused you. However strong your feelings may be, the rational thing to do is walk away and leave it alone.