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>24 years old
>FDNY firefighter
>Did a tour in Afghanistan with the Marines
>All about that /fit/ life
>Good looking
>Really hot girls hit on me
>Am REALLY REALLY nervous when it comes to sex for some odd reason
>Most nights end with me making out with a chick for a while before cutting it off saying something like "We should save this for when we aren't so fucked up on beers".
How do I fix this, I'm afraid my cock isn't big enough (it is), I'm also afraid I can't keep it hard (I jerk off to a ton of fucking porn, so I'm afraid the death grip kills it for me), and just general anxiety
How do I fix this, I've been in firefights and have fought fire inside a burning building, this shouldn't be as much an issue as it is. Thanks in advance. Not to be confused, I've had sex, but when I was in a relationship. Fucking randon chicks at a bar is so anxiety inducing.
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what's your weekly take home pay?
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>>18467105
1400 ish
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>>18467110
>mfw I'm not even getting 500 as a FDNY EMT
not that you guys don't deserve it but does the city really think we do only 1/3 of the work you do?
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>>18467122
>he fell for the emt meme
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>>18467193
ive worked over a dozen different jobs and this one is easily the best, its only the pay that's the problem
https://twitter.com/nycemswatch/status/604131914103013377?lang=en
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>>18467122
You apply for the promotion? Ems is the backdoor to fire.
Realistically, I think fire and ems should merge, call volume is insane especially in nyc.
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Marry me and don't worry about it ever again
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>>18467224
I would have but I'm 29 so I'm too old. Did you know that the FDNY is the only fire department that has an age limit, and that kind of age discrimination is actually illegal under NY law for everyone except them (they got grandfathered in). As long as you can pass the agility test why should age be a factor? Very frustating.
And no, EMS and fire will never merge, because then they'd have to give us a living wage. Btw did you hear anything about that 5 alarm in the east village today?
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Maybe you're one of those guys whom need to feel a connection with their partner before having sex. There's nothing wrong with that though. Don't stress much about it.
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Anons please, I need help.
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>>18467321
nah, I don't think you do
this isn't a serious problem
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I've got two suggestions.
Get a girl's number, talk over a few days, go on 1 or 2 dates. Maybe you need a little connection first.
Or....pick girls you know you're never going to see again and accept that it might not go as smooth as you'd like and just....do it. Even if you feel like you embarrassed yourself after....you never have to see her again and who cares what this random chick's opinion of a single performance is?
Every first encounter with a new partner is kinda awkward for everybody, weird shit might happen, if you can accept it and laugh it's better. Sex should be fun, you sound fairly normal and if they're willing to fuck you they're not going to judge you too hard. Most of us won't be assholes if you can't keep it up as long as you don't talk/whine about it for 20 mins. The ones that do are taking it personally.
I know just DO IT and if it's shitty it's shitty isn't really advice but...
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