How do I get over the hardest breakup of my life? It was completely

>>18466054
Im in genuine need of positive help and support.

I haven't figured it out entirely yet myself Anon. I can tell you that drinking doesn't help, nor does overworking yourself. Things that did help were moving and trying events/hobbies that I like but normally wouldnt have done. Going into nature alone is helpful. Swimming is peaceful. Gaining comfort and security in solitary things helps. But it is so hard, I know firsthand. The guilt, anger, near loss of identity and creating a new one..it all sucks. It gets better each day, but is still a struggle. Hang in there and seek comfort in being alone, but knowing you arent the only one alone. A good close friend or rebound fling is useful as long as you are clear on your intentions or lack of from the beginning.

>>18466054
>>18466059
Just keep going what you're doing, focus on yourself for free time can be good. Maybe ask more specific questions?

What did you do