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How do I tell my dominant boyfriend how to please me and what positions to use?
He's very inexperienced, but sweet and obviously enjoys being dominant
I have a bit more experience and love him a lot
all I want to do is help us have amazing sex and enjoy his dominance
How do I show him how to properly be a dom without ruining the sub/dom dynamic completely?
How direct is too direct?
I've tried to gently show him and tell him what to do
>be fucking in missionary
>tell him we're trying a new position
>he doesn't understand what is happening because we went from him choking me and calling me his little whore to me bossing him around in bed
I felt like I ruined something nice and I just don't know how to approach this situation without ruining it again
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shut up and do as he tells you dumb whore
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>>18464423
You bf isn't dominant if you have to coach him so I suggest you find a man that truly is.
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>>18464423
Talk to him about that after sex, or before. That way during sex the dynamic isn't broken.
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>>18464423
As the mood starts show him porn that shows what you like which would be things you would want him to do to you so then he can attempt it on you
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>>18464423
Maybe you could get another man to show him how it's done? He can watch you two and figure out what works best.
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>>18464423
Talk it out before you start sex. If you talk about before you start getting into it you won't ruin they dynamic while it's happening.
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>>18464423
Ignore the trolls.
It is a truism of the bdsm world that "The dom serves the sub". It is the sub's fantasies that are being fulfilled, and the dom gets a lot of his jollies from inventively and successfully making them happen.
So what you want is an early-evening out-of-bed conversation that goes like this:
-Honey, you know those kinky things we do in bed? Well, I really enjoy them, and I've been fantasizing that it might be exciting if you did X or Y or Z next time
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>>18464423
Just straight up tell em. I'd really don't get what's so hard to do that. I mean I hate it when people sort of Peter around the bush and give me lil dumb broad "hints" on what they want. Women do this a lot. One of my fuck buddies didn't know how to kiss at all. She would just stick her tongue in my mouth right when our lips touched. But told her straight up asked you that and then when she was saying that she knows (shes bout 14 yrs older than me) what did the same thing next time we kissed. What I did and then Liz I just move my head back so she couldn't really kiss me and then when she tried to enter my mouth I said no. Dumped her ass, she was biting the dick too in a nonkinky way.
TELL HIM!!!
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>>18465065
English not your native language I gagther
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