Hey /adv/ another retarded "relationship" thread
Just want to know if I'm in the wrong on being so pissed right now
So last year I was at my hometown and in December I hooked up with this girl... at the time a "good" friend of mine made me go for it and stuff
So we hooked up and they I moved away, we still kept talking and when I came on holiday we hooked up again but ultimately decide LDR was meh
About a month passes and both my "friend" and this "girl" come and say that they got together
I mean he clearly knew I had feelings and that I would be pissed - he said it so himself, but he didn't want to ask me about it because he probably knew I'd say to lay off
So now I'm feeling like shit, not as much because of the bitch but because a guy I've met and been a good friend for years just gave no fucks for a piece of pussy
So know I really don't know what to even make of this, as I'm going back home for a month in August...
She is not yours to keep, mainly because you refused to be in a relationship with her (even a LDR one). She wasn't yours and they can get together for that reason.
Your fault, not his.
Your problem, not his.
Find another girl in the place you live in if you want a relationship, don't force that girl to wait for you or to suddenly stop seeing EVERY guy just because of you.
>>18462964
I didn't refused, we decided together
It's not about being my fault or hers, and not EVERY guy, but one who I've talked about here and knew full well the implications....he said it himself he knew it would piss me off, and did it anyway...I'd say that's a pretty cuntish thing to do for a so called friend...
My problem is not her, but I feel like I can't really make things work with the dude and I'm wondering If that's too much
They say Bro's before hoe's not to be cringy or anything
I do appreciate the input, im just trying to make something out of this
>>18462978
Well, I can't really approach the whole "bro code" thing because from where I am, we usually don't have such thing. It's either fuck, or get fucked. No waiting around for "a bro". Friends or not.
Sorry I can only address the issue superficially, good luck.