I feel guilty because my boyfriend is buying me a lot of things recently.
Little background : 3 years old relationship, both first kiss/everything. We are going to live together in one month and i will start to study law.
His point of view : he is buying me things that I need for school and my well being and he wants to provide me a good life, he tells me that he is not buying things to make me happy but because it is needed
He buyed me a desk (240e), a printer (267e), dental health (3 500 -overtime-) skincare (84e) some cloth, books and he is planning to buy me a mcbook for my studies.
My point of view : We and I dont buy things if its useless. When I was working, I buyed him things and helped him when needed. But I still feel guilty. I think Ive shouldve said no to all of it, I feel bad and he dosent really understand why because he think that its normal. I dont want to abuse his love. I never force him to buy any of it or convince him but at the end I still said yes.
What do you think about it? Will answer questions.
English is horrible, on phone and not my native language.
>>18462891
Are you feeling guilty because you don't feel like your relationship will last, or you intend to leave him?
>>18462905
Nope I love him with all my heart and want to build a family with him
>>18462919
Then know that you'll be able to pay him back so many times over once you get your degree!