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I know that this isn't exactly a relationship central board but what the hell, I need to clear my head and figure out my next step.
I met this girl through her friends. She's 20 and stuies to be a doctor.
We had a fantastic first date where we talked for hours and looked into each others' eyes.
Right after it was over she told me that it was her first date ever. I couldn't believe it, she was so beautiful and nice I could hardly believe my luck.
And when I came home she told me that she's very sensitive and is very prone to beurotic breakdowns (i.e. she cried after our date because emotions were so overwhelming).
So, I met her the next day and it wasn't so nice anymore. She said that she's very stressed because of THIS and because she's never had anything like this before: she can't eat, can't sleep and is always very nervous (which is bad, because in 2 days she'll have her exam on anatomy).
So, the mood was less than pleasant, but we still hugged a lot, held each others' hands and smiled a shitton.
Enter today.
She wrote that she now cannot function normally and is afraid of me and this whole thing. She says that she doesn't feel the same way I do about us hanging out together (I'm sort of a romantic type who's very serious about relationships) and she thinks that she needs to run away from everyone and everything now to keep her sanity intact.
I am beyond devastated.
I told her "Take your time, I won't bother you until your exams, but let's meet this Saturday at XXXX Park at 3 p.m. I will be waiting there for you. You can come or not, it's up to you."
And her response was "I will not come. I've made up my mind."
So, /soc/, any ideas? What the fuck is happening? What should I do? Give her space? Comfort her somehow? Insist on staying? What?
It was the best two days of my life. She said at first that everything was amazing and she wants me to be close. But it all changed in a span of 2 fucking days. What do?
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I can't say I've been in your exact situation, but I can kind of relate. Femanon whose best relationships and dates were also sadly short lived.
I hate to say it, but once someone makes up their mind, they usually mean it.
I would still follow through with going to the predetermined meeting, because fuck it, you have to give it your all for love. And if she doesn't accept your love, you will always know you tried.
Also it's good that you are emotionally mature enough to try and understand where she's coming from and work with it. Sometimes things don't make sense and may or may not work out. We are complex creatures.
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>>18461576
I will because fuck it, I still don't understand how can one person change overnight so much.
One day she was thanking me for the best date in her life and the next day she told me that she is angry at everyone and cut herself off all the social media to cram for her exams alone.
It just hurts.
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>>18461575
Women being women, dont even bother with her. Go for a whore who acceots her natural slutty and disgusting way and just fuck her.
Never get emotionally attached with these animals
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3 words for her:
Physician, heal thyself.
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>>18461575
fuck her right in the pussy.
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>>18461575
Give her some breathing space. She might be busy with her stuff and you can't always be together b/c uni.
Buuut that's what I'd do. I don't know anything about her so this might not be the proper answer
>t. Katawa Shoujo player doing Hanako route
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>>18461575
Reported. This isn't /soc/. If you can't even get the board name right, then we know it's a copy paste troll
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>>18461577
She was overwhelmed. Probably wasn't properly loved by her parents.
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>>18461577
You're not at fault my nigga
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>>18461629
Bamboozled
Nice catch anon!
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>>18461585
I think she blocked me on FB already.
>>18461618
That's what I did. Her exam is on Thursday. I told her that I'ld like to see her on Saturday. She'll have her privacy and "me time" for 4 days. That's twice the lenght of us knowing each other.
>>18461629
Originally I posted this on /soc/ but mod moved it here, man.
>>18461636
I get the same idea.
When I brought her flowers yesterday she said that she feels that now she owes me something for this. I told her that it was just a basic courtship, no strings attached. That never happened to me before.
>>18461639
Not trying to point any fingers here, my dude. I'm just trying to fix the sitch. I don't want to forget about her and move on. I like her a lot. The first date was spectacular.
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