>be me
>hear that this girl likes me from a mutual friend of ours
>my friend sets up a double date kind of thing
>get dinner and ice cream
>have a great time, we like the same things and i made her laugh
>she even paid for my ice cream
>ask for her number at the end of the date
>send her a text so she gets my number
>shows up on her phone
>A few days later I ask her if she's free for anything
>never responds
>It's been 5 days
Is she not interested anymore? We had such a good time on the date I find it hard to believe she would completely blow me off like that. Is that just something girls do?
>>18458684
yeah, she cooled off, you might did everything right, maybe someone better came along, maybe her ex contactd her or whateverthefuck, dont sweat it
you dun fucked up
>>18458684
Did she save your number or not, or just "oh good I received the text okay"?
Since it's a double date it might be just a courtesy from her, so she won't be seen as a bad girl.
I think you did good, it's just something that's not meant to be. Simple. Don't overthink it too much.
If anything it should confirms that her interest on you is just that way, nothing more.
>>18458684
>never responds
>"is she not interested anymore?"
shes more interested than ever. start driving by her house at 2am. she needs to know you care.
>>18458684
Texting is super convenient, but it's also a bitch move in the first stages of dating because A: it's super easy to ignore or forget, and B: it's the same thing the last 20 guys she ignored did.
>>18458684
You got the free ice cream, so what's the problem here OP?
>>18459521
She was cute and funny and I liked her ;(
>>18459571
hey, at least you got a free ice-cream, not like all the other gentleman-cucks-in-training.
>>18460483
i dont want ice cream i want love
>>18461027
well then get the scoop from your mutual friends, discretely, like. tell them you enjoyed it very much, tell them you liked her very much too, see what they have to say, and figure out another date if possible.
>>18458684
>letting her pay for the ice cream
That was a test you fucking dolt. She wanted you to insist you pay no matter what.
>>18458684
>A few days later
anon these days you need to be constantly face timing or she's done with you. you didn't know this? it's one of the highest barriers to dating for me cause I fucking hate texting. I just call people... no one likes calls these days.
>>18461038
no it's worse than that, that's her saying you didn't take me out so I don't need to feel weird about ghosting you.
>>18461038
but I did insist
>>18461057
Not hard enough. It was to test how alpha you were. True alpha male does not back down no matter what.
The instant you gave up and accepted letting her pay she had officially become disgusted with you. She only gave you her number because she was still in your presence and had to keep pretending to be nice, but you can see for yourself how she feels now that you're apart.
>>18458684
Ping her from time to time, but move on. She may have considered you but when a girl is interested, she responds.