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I'm not like my high-class friends. They travel the world and spend money on brand name items, events, once in a life time experiences and I find myself not being interested in those things. I cant bring myself to justify spending money on things that won't necessarily bring me fulfillment. Am I unhealthy for not craving these types of things especially in my 20s? I just enjoy chilling at home, playing video games, cooking, reading and laughing with family/friends. Once when I told them in the future I'd want to be a housewife if I ever found the right man... they were disgusted that I'd want children and be dependent on a man. I can't help but feel inferior to these people in the way they react to me. Am I actually mentally unhealthy and I'm supposed to be acting similar to my strong, independent women friends?
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You have this thing called different interests so no, you are NOT mentally unhealthy
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Your friends have different interests and goals from you, neither is mental.
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>>18457580
We live in a dark world if people get disgusted by the idea of a woman having beautiful kids and being a happy housewife.
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>>18457587
It's literally like this with every chick I meet or became friends with throughout my life
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That sounds sane to me, the type of girl I'd like to find when I get older.
You shouldn't just give up on traveling though, you meet a lot of cool people while traveling and awe is a powerful emotion that we rarely get to experience otherwise.
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>>18457637
I like traveling close to home, I'm just too scared to travel anywhere else. I wouldn't want to visit any tropical places with diseases, scary creatures and the heat. I would have went to Europe, but considering the state it's in...that's out of the equation.
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>>18457669
>I would have went to Europe, but considering the state it's in...that's out of the equation.
Are you US person?
Because as an EU person, I think US is even worse
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>>18457580
Instead of thinking of your tastes in the negative, present the positive case for doing what you prefer to do - to yourself, to help you feel less "unhealthy" and to them, to make clear that you are not settling for less but choosing what is of more worth to you
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