I've been picked on and made fun of my whole life. Does everyone go through this or is it just because I'm a moron?
>>18457025
I wouldn't say that everyone goes through it but a lot of people do. It's how you handle it that will set you apart from the real losers who end up killing themselves or eating themselves to obesity or abusing drugs.
>>18457036
Thanks, that actually helps.
I just don't understand what I'm doing wrong or what makes me such an easy target.
>>18457025
a lot of people do. but the truth is morons arent usually picked on. a lot of morons become popular. a lot of ugly guys become popular. I went to five different high schools and each one was a little different. the popular kids could be conventionally attractive girls, or fat guys, or no one because the school was too big for that dynamic, or this or that or the third thing.
but one thing that was pretty consistent was there was always someone who thought everyone hated him because he was 'differnet'. someone who even my friend group would often hate (and i was always in the nerd group, anime fans at one school, theater group at another, and just weird ironic fanfiction writers at another).
the problem was that these people werent dumb, or different. they were bad people. they were awful to be around. and they blamed it on the world.
>>18457051
This is interesting, getting a genuine honest opinion. Maybe I'm just a bad person to be around and people sense that, then. Sadly I can handle that a little easier than being a moron as rediculous as that is it admit.
>>18457096
No, you probably get picked on because you react to, and reacting to it is the whole point of picking on people. To make you mad, get your goat, whatever. And because you're constantly provoked by it you have shown you are a willing and eager target.
I used to get picked on all the time in high school. When I stopped caring, stopped responding, or worse for them, went with whatever they were trying to make fun of me, I stopped being "fun" to pick on.
Become indifferent, anon
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>>18457111
Thanks guys. This helped more than you'll ever really know.
>>18457111
fucking this
like my 'friends group' abused the shit out of me, made fun of my teeth (had one tooth lodged into gums from childhood) and once I stopped caring, they ignored the shit out of me.