>raised up in small town where everyone kept to themselves and only now and then did things together
>all of a sudden move to town literally fifty times its size
>been here nearly four years, still not what you'd call used to the whole "invite friends out to do things" thing.
What do? How can I be sure someone's willing to go and do stuff? What kinda stuff should I be doing? I haven't made any proper friends where I live - I just have some buddies who laugh at my jokes, nobody close. What do I do about girls I'm after who I haven't spoken with much?