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>girlfriend asks me to buy x while I'm in a different country, promises to give me the money when I get back
>she then cries because I asked for the money when I gave it to her and tells me she expected me to just give it to her
>spot her some money, says she'll pay me back when she gets her pay, I tell her to just pay me back when she can
>remind her of it a week later after she got it
>she cries and tells me how she expected me to just let it go
>offer to buy gf the first drink when we go to the bar
>I do so, she then starts a huge fight and she cries when I only treat her to one
Is she trying to use me or is she autistic? I'm leaning towards the latter (because the former would be very uncharacteristic of her). Our finances are entirely separate (and I would definitely like her to have her own income before we get married) and we don't even live together. Neither of us are in a great spot financially either. But she always acts entitled to my money when I explicitly say one thing and she willingly ignores that and assumes another.
It's becoming a trend now where I'll treat her to x, and then she'll expect x and y. Or I'll loan her money for z, and she'll be legitimately upset when I wasn't joking about the loan part. I keep telling her that if I say "pay me back when you can" I really mean it and that I'm very specific when I say things but it just keeps happening.
How do I convince my girlfrend that I mean what I say? I've told her at least 10 times in the past 4 months that I would tell her I was treating her if I were treating her - not offer to pay on the pretense of it being given back and then just forgetting about it. But she just doesn't listen
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Sounds like you're the autistic one tolerating this bum cunt. Drop her while you still can and never look back.
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>>18453505
There are two possibilities.
Either you're leaving some information out and purposefully telling us stories without proper context so the only logical conclusion we could come to is that your girlfriend is an absolute psychopath and you're just an innocent bystander.
OR
You've made the concious decision to maintain a romantic relationship with a woman who is obviously unstable and now for some reason you're coming here pretending to be shocked by her historically consistent behavior and asking us questions that you already know the answers to.
Both options are your fault so, honestly, it doesn't seem like you need us at all. If you came here for us to pat you on the back and say "You're totally right buddy, poor guy, she's so awful to you." then I'm sure plenty of anons would love to oblige you with that but thats not really going to do anything to change your predicament nor does it portray you in a terribly believable light.
Your girlfriend is crazy. Ok. So either you're lying or you're an idiot who choses to date a crazy person then come on the internet and complain about it. Seems kind of like a no-brainer.
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>>18453505
She is probably having some sort of mental issue AND trying to use you.
Life is harsh, but she will have to keep her word with her partner regardless.
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Thanks for reminding me that I owe my boyfriend half of dinner the other night.
As for advice, stop offering to buy her shit.
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I just hope our dumb little OP has gotten his money's worth in hymen-ripping tears.
Dump the bitch already and find a gf who's not like 10.
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>>18453505
Then stop paying for her, let her cry, and ignore it. Or you could stop dating someone who is an entitled cunt, I dunno.
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