How the fuck do I stop comparing myself to others and feel

>>18453436
I guess it's kinda healthy to compare yourself to other every now and then.
See the absurdly positive side aswell but still question what's better. As for an extreme example: "That guy just finished college flawlessly and i am still working my 9-5 job as a cashier, i guess i had more freetime all those years."

>>18453453
Or alternatively to that sort of comparison
>My friend just acquired a phd while Im still working full time however my ambitions lay in different areas and we're both different people.

Is it perhaps shame you feel? Maybe you need to invest more into yourself such as finding a hobby, joining clubs and setting yourself up for the future.

You don't need to be person A. You just need to bring yourself your own fulfillment. It doesnt have to come packaged in a standard form.

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>>18453436
By doing things you enjoy. As long as you have your life and future *reasonably* under control, it's fine.