>falling out of love with Gf >need to stay with her due

>>18452032
You fix your relationship by putting effort into it. Relationships are about giveing anon. What did you guys do when you first met? Do that and that spark will come back. Sounds like you got lazy and this is the outcome. If you can fall in love and fall out of love, you can fall back in love too. Also I think you should distance yourself from your ex. She's obviously haveing problems. You and her are falling to the past for comfort. But you two broke up for a reason. Also it's the past. The past doesn't exist. Look towards the future anon. I believe in you.

>>18452045
Our past is kind of odd how we met and all, i dont want to go into it but we would not be able to recreate much, Im trying lots of romantic things but i just feel nothing.
And after finding out about my ex getting engaged im definately speaking to her lessi kind of assumed that was having some involvement in my feelings towards my gf

>>18452032
Same reason why you're talking to your ex. You're both bored or lacking something in your current relationship.

You could try cutting contact with the ex to see if you really want to break up with your gf.