I wanted to get some input on this
Where I work, there is a smoking area. It has benches, and lots of space. There was this cute girl I see all the time. I stare at her, and I felt like she stared at me some times - but maybe she was just looking in my direction. Anyway, after a few days, I made a move, and she shut me down. Said she has a boyfriend, which may or may not be true (I'm leaning towards true because she doesn't seem obnoxious at all). I thanked her for her time and and left.
I've seen her a few more times with people, but this most recent time, she came by herself and sat close to me - suspiciously close given the amount of open seats she could have chosen.
What was up with this? She could have sat anywhere and she already shut me down. Why sit so close to me. I could have leaned over and touched her. We didn't talk, she was there for a short whole then left.
Advice on what the hell that was about?
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>>18449384
Golden rule of life
Always be kind and polite to everyone and if a cute girl sits close to you say hello then politely inquire as to how their day is going.
>>18449384
it;s just a seat man
its just a seat.
dont read into it.
>>18449384
You are no longer a random face to her. She is not into you, don't get me wrong. But by talking to her, you are now a person in her "mindscape".
That's why sitting away from you would have been weird. I mean, maybe you two could've talked.
She is not into you.
Next time, say, "hi" or something. Maybe you'll make a friend. If for some unfathomable reason you can't bear to be friends with this girl just because she rejected you, then ignore her for a while and you'll disappear from her mind eventually.