relationship autist here
what happens if I confess my feelings to a grill(she's from my class), can anything good come out of it or is it a spergy thing to do?
I've really liked her for 3ish years but it's never escalated to anything more than joking around and talking a few times a day, I'd hardly even say we're friends.
You don't confess. Ever. Life is not an anime. Instead you just ask her out.
>>18447972
Just ask her out on a date. Don't confess. That's spergy.
>>18447986
>>18447988
i figured as much. how do you do that? like how do you ask her out without being autistic?
do I stop trying if she refuses?
>>18447998
Want to go to X with me this weekend? Could be an event or coffee. If she asks if it's a date you say yes. If she says no, oh well, move on. You're a kid, nothing you do now matters in adult life anyway, might as well get some practice while you are still in the stage of life with no consequences.
>>18447998
>do I stop trying if she refuses?
Yes, don't make it weird. Either act like it never happened or cut all contact.
>ask her out for coffee
>while bullshitting with her, if you come across a "mutual pause" in conversation, throw in a :
"Ya know, I'm not gunna lie, I had the biggest crush on you back in blah blah blah. Always thought you were cute as fuck"
>play it off like it's nothing
Should give her that subtle hint of interest
How I managed to break the ice with my ex wife.
>>18447972
Tell her this "ever since I stopped hating you I've wanted to take you to the movies"