>start relationship with girl I'm not attracted to because I was sick of feeling inferior to other people
>fast forward 1 and a half year
>resentful about being with her
>cannot help but feel aversion every time I see her face
>we get along well and I don't want to hurt her by breaking up
How do I get out of this situation the smoothest possible way
>>18445850
>>18445853
you wish
>>18445850
You need to break up with her. It will hurt her, and you will also feel terrible. That's how it goes, son. Learn from it. Don't invest in someone you aren't attracted to in the future, it'll just make and her suffer down the line.
>>18445850
You must break up with her. Just say some shit like "this isn't going to workout".
Find someone who you are attracted to regardless of how they will look in the future.
>>18445850
Break up with her before you get her pregnant and she's stuck in a loveless marriage with you and with a kid who's dad doesn't even love his mother. Tell her that the relationship isn't something you want
>Find someone who you are attracted to regardless of how they will look in the future.
What do you mean by that?
>>18446356
Everyone ages. Looks can fade.
It's fine to have decent standards for what they look like, but pick someone for their personality more than what they look like.
you give her the "it's not you, it's me" talk.