my fianc is worried about his libido. he thinks it's way

I'll say that's definitely atypical for men, so you're not going to comfort him by saying it's normal. But just because it's not normal doesn't mean it's bad. One negative outcome for this would be overworking you. You seem to be game for the amount of sex, so that's not a problem.
It seems like a lot of time is taken towards his orgasms. Does it get in the way of his career and housework and hobbies?

I'll note that popping a boner doesn't necessarily mean a guy is horny. It's a physiological response. Not that it means he isn't horny, but I just would like to unpair the boner and the desire for you.

I don't know anything about this for his health. I don't know if orgasming that many times is hard on his system. I don't know if it's a tell-tale sign for something else. I wouldn't really worry about it, since I feel like that would be something people would talk about if it was the case.

>>18445858
it's definitely too much for me and he takes rejection personal, so it is an issue and the reason we take it serious.

he cums very quickly, so even if we end up having sex 5x/day it's not guge amounts of time. but yes, it happens often that he takes a lot longer for showering because he has to rub one out or misses breakfast because he stays in bed to masturbate. it's also fairly common that he soends entire mornings jacking off if i'm not home instead of doing sething productive. it does bother him, he said himself that he would like to take up reading and exercising again, but then he just stays in bed because it's comfy and he's horny and he has all the porn he could wish for readily available.

i asked him and he said that whenever he has a boner he's also horny and could fuck on the spot.

he's in good health and shape, he's just almost always tired and absent minded. he forgets a lot or makes unnecessary errors (hia own observation, and i see it too). i don't know if that's a symptom or a cause.

Well, there are such a things as hypersexual disorders (like "sex addiction"), so maybe try talking to a therapist or expert in the field?

>>18445894
>he's in good health and shape, he's just almost always tired and absent minded. he forgets a lot or makes unnecessary errors (hia own observation, and i see it too). i don't know if that's a symptom or a cause.
It's possible that it's related, but those are symptoms of many many things.

>it's definitely too much for me and he takes rejection personal
That's really rough on you that he takes it personally.

It does sound like this negatively effects his life and straining his relationship. That is enough reason to talk to a doctor about it. I would suggest not taking "no" for an answer. If one doctor brushes you guys off, see another one. Try to find someone who specifically advertises themselves as sex positive. A sex positive therapist may also help. I think it's more common in the therapy field to find someone who displays as such. They can help figure out how to cope, how to minimize the issue, how to communicate between the two of you when it's too much.
Also see if you can find forums online of people who are dealing with this affliction. I'm sure they're out there.

Have him Fuck a really ugly chick, with your permission of course, positive and a negative make a negative so bam, he'll be back to normal.

>>18445764
I have this problem but as a woman.
I feel like I HAVE TO have sex or masturbate multiple times a day or else my genitals get this annoying feeling that keep sending singnals to my brain saying "touch me touch me!"

I also have really bad depression so I think it's a way I self medicate because masturbation brings out dopamine every time you do it. Is your fiancé depressed or anxious in his daily life?

>>18445764
Haha what.
Femanon here and this is exactly me with my bf except we both really enjoy it and i dont have a problem. We have sex several times a day and night, and anytime we talk sexual stuff or fantasies, he gets a boner and I relieve him. I thought this was actually pretty normal behavior.

>>18445764

it's not normal. i mean, if it's not detrimental to your relationship(although getting stiff during serious convos probably shifts the mood) there's nothing wrong with it, but i would recommend looking into it.