basically I redpilled my GF, she knows about /b/, my fetishes,

>>18444255
How did you think she'd react to the "I like other women" talk?

When I was in a relationship, I thought about no other women than my gf, not once. It lasted for 8 years before I was cheated on....

>>18444264
she reacted better than my Ex, it took her some working through, but she is accepting it and is approaching it problemsolving now, e.g. I should tell her, if my need to have something with another woman goes up, so we can find a solution that is working for both of us. Like going to a prostitute or whatever. She wants the security, that I don't do anything behind her back and don't leave her for another girl, because in her words, she doesn trust other women with trying to win me over, if I give them a chance.

Sex is one thing, a relationship is something else, at least in my book a relationship revolves more around bringing up children together.

>>18444297
So you'd be fine if she had casual sex with other men, as long as she came back to you?

>tfw your bf will never have secret, mysterious fetishes he hides from you and then one day divulges
I'd feel so honored desu :c
My fetishes outnumber his significantly, but his sweet vanilla heart couldn't take it if I revealed them. He's already expressed absolute disgust towards a few of the ones that I've kept secret, so I'll just stick to wearing cute sundresses, loving semen and sucking dick, I guess (which is not bad at all anyway).

Good luck, OP. If she is rational as you say, give her some time to think about it without really talking about it anymore and maybe she will come around. She just needs time to work it all out in her mind. Everyone is different, your thoughts don't define you, your fetishes don't define you, your feelings and actions of love towards your gf is what defines you and your lovely relationship.
>love her to bits.
That was adorbs.

>>18444255
that was pretty dumb of you. there's no undoing it so just go with it i guess

>>18444294
that's usually the case when you're deeply in love with a person. other people just aren't /her/

>>18444310
>other people just aren't /her/
This is so true.
I don't even get off to porn anymore, I just need my boyfriend to be involved in some way. Love really broke my pussy.

you're a fucking moron OP. Claiming to be redpilled while still having a gf and even telling her about everything? better prepare your anus

>>18444301
well, yes, except I would not want to hear any details about it and she didn't express any interest in wanting that. I'm offering her the same options i get, and my options would be prostitute or sperm donation or looking at hot girls. So that's what she can get aswell
>inb4 cuck

>>18444308
thank you, and may your BF let you raw his ass once in a while. My GF is jsut a little into BDSM, but she is saying, she has no way to think up something, that she likes, she can only see how her body reacts once it's done to/by her, have you ever heard about somethign like that?

>>18444310
So you say, if she asks me specifically about that stuff, I should deliberately hold it back so to not hurt her? She is quite insecure and would feel even worse, at least that's what we both think would happen.

>>18444315
I really fear, that if it wouldn't work out with her, I'd be so addicted to her perfect innie pussy, that no other girl could make me happy afterwards, I know it's superficial, but damn that look and feeling...

>>18444308
pls grind on my face.
Are there any tells to find a girl that is into face sitting/riding?

>>18444337
>I really fear, that if it wouldn't work out with her, I'd be so addicted to her perfect innie pussy, that no other girl could make me happy afterwards...
So instead of trying to make it work with her so you can keep fucking that perfect pussy into eternity, you ruin your relationship by telling her you want to fuck other girls? 10/10 plan OP. Con-fucking-grats.

Take risks and invest in your relationship, you silly fuck.

>>18444255
>Making a woman aware of the redpill
you have created the unlimited power hungry succubus, The end is near.

>>18444321
hey Mr. Countdown, you are of course right, that I abused the word redpilling to mean something that it is not, jsut to make it clear what I mean, she cringes at a lot of feminists and is now open eyed about how men are sometimes treated badly in our culture, especially the well studied male sexuality but also that, whenever a male steps into a court room, he is basically fucked.

But I also love talking with her in the regard of how women feel, think and are, with the ultimate goal of closing the gap, that seems to be getting bigger and bigger, between men and women, that is filled with hatred and pain.

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>>18444357
yeah that can only go well... There are reasons for things being like they are and it is not going to change. You thinking the love of your life is different is not going to change the facts and will only lead to your demise.

But hey, it's not all bad yet, enjoy it while you can and I wish the best of luck to you

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>>18444343
yeah, that's what i want to talk about with you guys, how can I keep her forever and maybe, god behold even marry her. Im also talking with her, but i am open for any input and ideas, hell even concepts that have or haven't proven to be working

>>18444352
pic might be related, because only wife material gets redpilled

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>>18444375
holy shit this guy is gonna kill himself one day

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>>18444365
I can't fear my demise, as everybody will die, so why not die trying to reach a humble goal

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>>18444380
you mean, i can become an hero?

>>18444375
Just shut the fuck up. Relationships are a choice and a rational decision, love isn't. You can "redpill" her on how a relationship should be, but not on how love should feel. Stop trying to.

Feeling that you are the best thing in the world for someone, like no other woman could ever replace you, like nothing else after you will be as good as you is the best feeling that exists. Feeling loved in that way is what all people ultimately want.
Is it rational? No. Do I actually *think* that I am irreplaceable? No.
But the feeling that there's nothing else other than me for him is the best. Feeling desired, wanted, accepted is what we all want and nothing makes you feel that way like having a man completely crazy about you.

You fucked up by telling her that you'd fuck other woman. Like, hugely. You could tell me that I'm smart, intelligent, pretty and all you want but if you told me that actually you'd go out and fuck some whore I'm not going to believe you.
You clearly hurt her feelings and she has all the reasons to feel like shit.

>>18444337
>she has no way to think up something, that she likes, she can only see how her body reacts once it's done to/by her

My ex used to be like this, it really bothers me when a girl doesn't know what she wants and what she likes. I guess some guys would like the idea of teaching sex to a girl, but to me it's just a waste of time.

>>18444416
>You fucked up by telling her that you'd fuck other woman. Like, hugely.

I know that you definitely have a point and for many women that is totally true, but what about my feelings? i don't want to be forced to lie to somebody and act like male sexual desires where not existing. We now live in a society where noone should be ashamed of his or her needs.
If the needs of one gender hurts the needs of the other gender, than we need to talk about it and find a middle way.

And no, I am not feeling like the best guy she deserves, im just normal and don't force her to stay with me.

How would you try to salvage this situation then?

>>18444618
>now live in a society where noone should be ashamed of his or her need
Wants!=needs!!!

>>18444839
yeah you are right, that is the better word here