I'm a guy and I'm having trouble with sex/masturbating.
For the past few months I just haven't been able to cum/reach an orgasm unless I'm almost breaking girl friend's pelvis with my own hips or almost giving my dick friction burns. Why can't I feel pleasure from sex and masturbation without having to be overly intense about it all?
I've tried all kinds of different lubes, sex toys, even my girl friend hasn't managed to get me off on her own. She feels so helpless and disheartened, thinking I don't like her or think she's disgusting because I can't get off without going to pure extremes. But it just isn't true, she's gorgeous and I love her. It's just like my body took a weird turn and I want to go back.
Anyone else ever have a problem like this?
Any solutions?
when you jack off do you deathgrip?
Yes.
Try jerking off to gay porn. Don't be surprised.
>>18443249
stop looking at porn and jacking off so much. A lot of guys have this problem its called death grip. Your GF will resent you and want to leave you if this goes on any longer, so give up the porn. I am speaking from experience.
>>18443249
My boyfriend and I both have this problem. If you've masturbated too hard or in a specific way for years there isn't much you can do to turn around.
>>18443249
>Anyone else ever have a problem like this?
once. it's in your head. it's a mental thing. the solution is cumming again.
that said, other than that one time lasting like two days, no I've never had that problem despite being able to last a minute or last an hour. I just came in about a minute jacking off, could also go for an hour.
>>18443348
why are you in both threads trying to turn the frogs gay?
>>18443745
perhaps you'd cum if you weren't trying to get sexual satisfaction from sword fighting?
>>18443812
I'm a grill. It's not a mental problem for me, I just masturbate in an oddly specific way and it's the only way I can get off.
>>18443249
Are you circumcised?
>>18443822
so what're we talking, like you need shock pads or...