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My boyfriend wont stop looking at porn, even in public settings. Is this wrong to upset me? I got in a fight with him because I told him how I didnt like how he looked at porn when he was with me in public. He says that he isn't actively seeking it out and it just appears on his feed which I wouldnt have a problem with if he just scrolled past it but it he clicks on the image and zooms in on it, looking at the details and stuff, way longer than he looks at just a regular image. He says he likes it because he likes the art which okay whatever in youre own home whatever excuse you have for looking at porn idc because I look at porn too but I have a problem when he does it in public because people might see, especially when he does it in crowded places.
I tried to tell him a few times how I felt uncomfortable when he does it and if he could just keep to looking at those images at home but he explodes at me saying how I'm being stupid and he doesnt care what people think or that it makes me uncomfortable and how people shouldnt look near him. However, I don't feel like its too much to ask if he can just scroll past it when hes in public because it makes things awkward and I don't really like going out places with him and he looks at it constantly. The porn shows up a lot and he looks at every picture so its not like its a once in a while thibg, its guaranteed to happen often.
Is there anyway for me to maybe word how I feel so he doesn't feel attacked or whatever? Also am I just stupid for feeling this way and should just try to deal with it?
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>>18439325
>he browses porn in public
>in the presence of his gf
Is he retarded? Are you? Why are you even dating this moron?
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>>18439325
>he doesnt care what people think or that it makes me uncomfortable and how people shouldnt look near him.
Unfortunately for him, being a decent member of society means caring about tact and etiquette. In public, I don't pick my nose around like I might at home, I don't sing loudly like I might in my car, I don't grope my S/O the way I would in bed, and I DON'T look at porn the way I would in private.
Christ. I'm sorry, OP.
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Guys like looking at porn. Get over it.
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>>18439325
Sounds like he's looking at anything you'd see on here on a given day
I really don't see the problem. Is he showing all his friends and strangers and drawing attention to it?
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Not gonna lie, if its out in public it sounds like an addiction. That's pretty abnormal.
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Jesus fucking Christ, it's not wrong for you to get upset OP
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>>18439346
In broad daylight? In front of his gf? Most of us aren't THAT retarded.
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>>18439325
Dude I was in a similar relationship with someone who had like no filter or any idea on how to act in public and would similarly explode at me over voicing my irritation. Get out now is my advice to you.
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>>18439325
Dude's got some issues he isn't willing to admit he has. It might be workable if he was like "Yeah I know it's really weird but I'm having trouble stopping, pls help me anon". But no, he believes that there is no problem, and in that case, is not even willing to make a simple concession for you.
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>>18439340
>I don't grope my S/O the way I would in bed,
and that's why you're a beta
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>>18439325
Porn addicts have no place in relationships. If your dude can't wait a few hours to look at lewd shit he's got major problems. This could snowball into him getting ED early and being unable to fuck you. Don't put up with a porn sick man, there are plenty of men who don't fill their whole day with watching porn. You deserve better than a sperg who looks at anime tiddies in public.
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