Hi /adv/, I'd like some advice on how to focus and how to

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>>18438486
>I studied Software Engineering, which by the way I don't really enjoy
I bet there isn't a job in the world you would wet yourself over every morning to do. In fact I think it's pretty usual to get little bored to something after you've done it for years. Don't worry about it.

>It feels like I just basically killed any chances at a good job I might have had.
Just get some job and enjoy life at your free time.

>Pairing with general anxiety at getting older and entering adulthood and still being basically a nobody, and not doing very well on the relationships
You've already entered adulthood. This is it. You aren't going to feel really much different from this.

And you don't have to be in a relationship or become somebody.
Stop trying to control everything.

>>18438486
I would suggest focusing on your priorities. Maybe make a list of the most important things you want for your future. If your main objective is to have a good resume and finishing your degree, then focus on that instead of trying to juggle school and relationships. Start on the most important things, and put less immediate concerns on hold for now.

Keep in mind that I am just a random person though. I don't know your problems and stuff, so...yeah.

>>18438618
I really related to OP's post. Your advice helped me feel a bit better inside, thank you, Anon

>>18438664
Glad to hear!

>>18438486
>I am 24 years old and I feel like my life is basically over.
You're being over-dramatic and you know it.

No your life isn't over at 24. You can still turn things around, and you can still get a job, a decent paying one at that. All you need to do is put your head down and get rid of all your damn excuses.

>I have general anxiety guise ;_;
Well guess what, so does the rest of the world, everyone gets anxious about the future, how they're going to pay off that mortgage, provide for their children, fix the car, but they suck it up and do what they need to do. Right now, you're just sitting on your hands, miraculously hoping for things to get better.

The reason you're feeling "old" is cause you're letting time pass you by with inactivity. You're not striving to be a better version of you today than you were yesterday.

Shelf off relationships until you get your life together.

>>18438618
>>18438624
>>18438796
Thanks for the advice, it helps.

I know I'm being melodramatic saying my life is over but i do feel like it's spinning out of control. I think a big problem is also that i don't know what I want to do with my life at all. I have a lot of passing interests but I have no idea what to really get dedicated for.

First of all I think I have to get my education in order. The resume will look awful but no resume will look even worse, I guess. Then I can start working on landing a nice job and finally maybe try to meet a nice girl.

I just hope it's not too late to fix this.