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>see a girl around town every now and then over the course of like a year, on the bus or whatever
>never really spoke, but I've picked her out of a crowd a few times because I thought she was cute (Not like a 10/10, but like average girl cute)
>I even know the place she works
>Don't know anything else about her though
>She may or may not know that I even exist
>She just today created an OKCupid account
Alright bros, what should I do? I'm a kissless virgin with crippling social anxiety, but I'm not a complete and utter mess. I have a job, I'm relatively clean cut, I've even lost a pretty decent amount of weight recently etc. What would be the best way to approach this? How should I talk to her and what should I open with to avoid sounding like a total loser creep. I've been trying to come up with something for like an hour now but I'm completely locking up.
I feel like this is one shot to potentially get with this QT I've day dreamed about a few time, but I'm pretty hopeless when it comes to courtship and I want to minimize my chances of fucking this up. I'll take any and all advice.
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If you see her irl it'd probably be better to approach her there.
Are you on the same bus?
Where does she work?
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>>18438448
I don't see her on the bus anymore, as I don't have any need to go into the city regularly for work these days.
She works at a local store, stocking shelves or cashing people out or whatever. I'm not a stalker, so I don't have her hours memorized or anything like that though. I've just seen her working there a few times. Is it cool to just strike up a random person for casual conversation when they're on the clock though? I'd get pretty annoyed by that personally.
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>>18438456
If she's cashing people out she's paid to talk to you. So why not get your groceries in the store she works and just strike up a conversation. She won't mind, if she likes you.
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>>18438405
dont bother, she is having sex with a different guy every day of the week on tinder and they are all better than you
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>>18438462
I guess. It's not a grocery store though, more of a discount junk store, so it might be considered creepy for me to be coming in there looking to see if Whats-her-face is working everyday just to strike up a one minute conversation.
And I feel like I should strike while the iron is hot, before it's too late.
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>>18438405
Crippling social anxiety is the result of a chemical imbalance in the brain. Usually dopamine related. I would get that sorted out before even attempting to talk to women.
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>>18438495
My stupid pride would never allow me to see a shrink and get put on happy pills though
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