Possibly a bit of an unusual post here guys but what do you think of this shit?
I recentre moved out of my final year student digs that I had to live in as a room filler with some of the shit ties girls I've ever met. They were immature, messy drug addicts that constantly left the oven on, doors and windows open all night and habitually smoked pot. Not to mention, one of their boyfriends squatted in our house rent free. Me and one other guy living there were concerned about this shit from day one and told the landlord that we didn't want to live there any more because they were disregarding our requests for the place to be cleaned and things to be sorted. The landlord alays responded with how he didn't want to be a referee in the house and we were all mature adults that should've sorted things without him. Low and behold the year came to an end with the place being teased and robbed just after my most recent visit to the property and I'm being blamed for leaving the doors open which I had a witness with me as I secured the place. What follows is the landlord's text messages to me just this evening. Apologies in advance for sounding like a nob and losing my ability to text coherently as he made me rage so hard.
so far so good
>>18435679
Light his shithouse on fire OP. That last response.........
Balls
I tried so hard to restrain myself here. He was so obviously not interested in anything I had said. Plus I was ready to rip him a new one about it actually being a bit more than a squabble as I believe a burglary is... especially when these girls would bring back drugged up fuck bois when they were strung out and constantly stole from each other.
awww how anticlimactic
yeah landlord is completely in the right here, heed his words, he's not out to get you and the lesson he's trying to teach you is immensely valuable
I'd argue that he's not in the right either. The fact that he didn't seem to want to intervene when I politely informed him that I was concered about how much the girls were damaging the place, inviting strung out drug nuts back and leaving the place wide open and unlocked 24/7 despite being asked to stop makes me think it's got a lot to do with his laziness. The more I looked into the contracts this evening I also found out he hasn't put my security deposit in a TDP so I'm going to claim compensation if he longs this out. His responses alone make me want to cave his face in.
>>18435654
OP you have been in a tough spot. Maybe you had some other psychological pressures too that added to this situation? I think the problem here arises in the fact that you could not control the girls and that kinda bothered you and irritated you. So when you approached the landlord ab it, you were expecting a tougher reaction to their deeds but seeing that the landlord didn't care you got irritated with him too. I understand the girls might be faulty and that the landlord should had done smth ab it but we just can't control everyone to act how we like to. Chill man, you moved out of that mess. But if you want to improve yourself you should learn to accept people the way they are. Just live with the flow of life. Don't worry mate.