I need some advice (aka it's probably obvious but I'm too emotionally involved to care). I went on a few dates with this guy and thought we were really developing feelings for each other. 2 nights ago, we had sex (twice!), he drops me off in the morning and we tentatively plan to meet up tonight. Radio silence. Then this at 1230. It.....it's just a booty call right? :(
>>18429790
https://youtu.be/01gDf_Tr6YU
>>18429796
Damnit
>>18429790
Try not to be so hard on yourself. You should ask him what he wants to do and see what he says. If you're not comfortable with fucking, just ask to do something else in the mean time, and if he seems like he's only in it for the fuck and you're not comfortable with that sort of thing, cut things off.
>>18429828
The hard part is I already have dupe mega ultra feelings for him. BUT he kinda made me wait around tonight I feel..... and for this.....
Also my brother says I should ignore him texting this late if I want him to be interested in more. So I guess do I flat ignore this or send something about possible future plans tomorrow? Or something else??
>>18429835
*super
>>18429835
>mega feelings
>only fucking
You must be really easy. Take your bro's suggestion.
>>18429835
I don't know what this guy is like so idk how he'll respond. Not looking desperate is a good way to go just be careful not to alienate him by acting cold. Send him something about future plans and see what he says.
>>18429850
This is actually partially happening because I'm NOT usually easy...sex means something to me and I thought I'd be okay doing it outside of a relationship this once, but I guess not lol
>>18429851
Yeah good advice. He's hasn't been a big texter in the time I've know him, usually just tries to plan for in person. But when we were together it was going really great I THOUGHT, he told me he doesn't usually click so well with people, was very romantic etc.
>>18429860
Regardless, it seems one sided if all you do together is fuck when he feels like it.
>>18429866
It's not
Read op