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Help an emotionally stunted manchild out, please
>be an avid /r9k/ lurker (KV at 20, no success with girls whatsoever
>match with girl on tinder
>send her some autistic jokes
>she seems to warm up
>asks me over to her place to play video games and eat pizza
>she's a total womanchild (pokemon plushies everywhere, two cats and 4+ home video game systems with tons of games, NEET, overweight, unnatural coloured hair etc.)
>says it was her first tinder date (not really a necessary detail but I'm quite drunk so whatever)
>play vidya with and eat pizza with her
>date doesn't really lead anywhere (In hindsight felt like I missed some very obvious clues she gave me, or maybe I'm just overanalyzing it)
>she walks me to the bus stop where we chit-chat a little, but she says "My life's a bit complicated right now" when I try to inquire about a possibility of a second date
>its been 3-4 weeks but I can't get her out of my head
I know its because I'm an emotionally stunted manchild, but I can't seem to shake her out of my head. My performance at work has suffered greatly and I think of her almost daily. How do I get over her? I know she's probably nothing that special, but every time a girl gives me any attention I'll get hung up on her. This was the most attention a girl has ever given me.
>inb4 "Just go meet more girls and you'll realize she's nothing special"
Not possible, I'm ugly as sin and autistic like Chris Chan (okay, maybe not, I've only got an aspergers diagnosis). Girls never give me attention
tl;dr manchild with aspergers, went on a date with a girl but it didn't go anywhere, can't get her out of my head. What do? Talk me out of drunk texting her
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Lel, just text her and tell her how you feel faget
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Stop thinking about her move on
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Go on another one
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>>18425553
I can't get her out of my head. I want to, but I can't. I know she's probably human trash (NEET, shit hobbies, no financial sense), but I just can't stop thinking about how nice she was and how beautiful her eyes were. How do you just stop thinking about someone?
>see happy couple (on the street, on the telly etc.)
>thoughts automatically shift to her
I had to lie to my boss that my bad performance of work was because of not being able to sleep due to the recent heatwave. I can't keep this charade up for too long, I can only stay awake at work with the help of energy drinks.

>>18425554
Did you read my post? I can't get dates. This was one of those "one in 10 years" chances (or atleast I think so).
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sounds like a success story to me, you got a date. just keep trying at it and youll get another one. if its meant to be youll cross paths with this girl again.
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>>18425532
You bored her. Missed your chance. There's nothing you can do about it now, move on, there's no way in hell you can change her mind at this point. You need to practice basic socialisation before even attempting to find a girlfriend if you fall for someone this easily. Get used to friendly interactions with women before attempting dating.
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>>18425587
>sounds like a success story to me, you got a date
This was the first date I've gotten off tinder and I've been there for atleast 6+ months
>.if its meant to be youll cross paths with this girl again.
Life isn't a romantic comedy and I'm not played by Owen Wilson. Good things like this happen to me only once every 2-3 years (getting a good circle of friends ,getting a good job, getting a date etc.). I know its not meant to be, but I can't get her out of my head. Its driving me crazy. I know its becaue I've got almost no experience with girls. Its a subconscious thing and I've been suffering from sleep deprivation for weeks now.
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>>18425637
>You need to practice basic socialisation before even attempting to find a girlfriend if you fall for someone this easily. Get used to friendly interactions with women before attempting dating.
Any protips on how to do this?
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Just see other girls fgt. There's plenty of fish in the sea. She seems like a total drag anyways
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Check this video out: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DR2j2RC0Ytk

Might help you when it comes to this stuff. Went through something similar to you, you keep getting closer/bolder but it's a journey. We all think we just find a girl and it'll be ok, well it's not like that it's a journey and you got closer, gotta keep at it.

As for getting over her, hell it can take years to get over stuff in life - I'm still suffering depression 4 years later lmao.

But like that other guy said - it's a success. Keep trying!!! (life is painful, life is suffering and all that:()

I suggest you watch some videos by RSD tyler is good. Check them out.
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>>18425729
>As for getting over her, hell it can take years to get over stuff in life - I'm still suffering depression 4 years later lmao.
Welp, I guess I'lll be forking over money to bacardi for the next 4-5 years then. Nothing's better than drinking every weekend and hoping for less loneliness I guess.
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>>18425638
>owen wilson kek
But seriously ive been through the same thing about, and heres what i did. Sit in the dark pray/meditate for as long as it takes. Force your brain to accept that you will never see this fat bitch again and you don't give a rats dick. I did this like 8 years ago, and have not had 1/10 of the emotional connection to any women that i had when i was younger. It worked for me, but i do feel slightly like sociopath since.
Going running also helps
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