How do you deal with the aftermath of opening up your heart to

You realize that person doesn't give a damn and grow your skin a bit thicker because of it.

>>18425199

by moving on.

>>18425199
Move on. I did it once. Never again.

its funny, americans will open up to people real early, but certain europeans will never do that unless you're extremely close to them for years and years.

just dont do it unless youre sure the person youre talking to will be ok with it, and if they are then thats good. its like therapy if you cant afford it, whether or not that helps is another deal

>>18425199
Sometimes the best lessons in life come from things like this. Next time, you'll be a little more guarded and a little more scrupulous about who you share your feelings with and what type of person they are. But don't sweat it. This person doesn't care about you or they wouldn't be spreading your secrets. Own it and it won't be fun for her to do. Distance yourself and don't share anything with her in the future that isn't common knowledge. Try next time to choose better friends. Most of all, you won't do this to someone else because you know how it hurts. So you can be the ear that listens and helps others in need.

>>18425199
Most people are pieces of shit, including the people you hold close to you, family or friends. The number one thing you need to learn is that 95% of all people that you know honestly don't give a shit about you and how you feel. Sorry, but there it is. The shitty part is that despite that you still need to have friends and family in your life. You'll simply have to supplement what they don't give you emotionally and do it yourself, kind of like masturbating when you don't get enough sex. Such is the way of things. All part of the human condition.

Find other things to enjoy. Nerds and social rejects get the jump on this early by hyper-focusing on activities and things nobody else cares about, and doing it to the point where they forget about people. Maybe don't go that far, but at least take that lesson out of their lifestyle.