I have aspergers and adhd
how do I find every retarded asshole trait I have so I can fix them and be normal? the problem is finding the trait because the overarching problem I have is obliviousness to these traits
>>18425141
Why are you desirous of being "fixed"?
>>18425141
There's no "normal". You'll never be perfect. You can try to connect better with people, though.
Step 1) Stop blaming your mental health. Sure, that plays against you, but the questions here is "What can I do?" not "What am I unable to do?"
Step 2) Social Cues. You can clearly tell you bother people in some way, don't you? Else, you wouldn't be asking here. So try to pick up when and how you are being unpleasant.
Step 3) Work on yourself.
>>18425141
therapy.
>>18425153
because my lifes dream is to be a chill and socially successful
>>18425157
obviously. but the problem is that I want to find out what social cues need to be fixed. even when I make a autistic asshole tier mistakes I still don't know what i've done wrong without much deep thought
>>18425255
>that I want to find out what social cues need to be fixed.
How can we tell you that? You are the one living those encounters. We don't know what you do. We are not psychic.
>>18425269
I'm asking what the general cure to obliviousness is
>>18425280
Paying attention.