Redpill me on never getting married. Seeing my parents' marriage and other marriages around me they seem to end either with divorce or both people being miserable and stuck with a person they hate (they they once kinda loved). It disgusts and frightens me to no end. I'd rather live alone with 5 cats than like that
>>18424713
>Redpill
>>>/pol/
On the question though, that's just anecdotal evidence. A lot of people have happy marriages, and even amongst those who end up divorcing, a lot don't regret the time they spent married. All things considered though, if it's not for you, don't do it
My own parents love each other. They're disgustingly cute together. Everyone around me has divorced parents though
>>18424713
Since i'm a child i've said that i never want to get married, also because of some reasons you posted above: i simply fear, that my future partner and i stop loving each over and live in complete unhappiness.
Even nowadays a lot of people either say it's just a phase or ask bewildered why i would want to stay alone forever.
Just because you don't get married doesn't mean that you can't have a boy/girlfriend. I often think that couples who are simple together without ever gettig married seem a lot more content and also manage to kinda keep that first stage of feeling incredibly in love for longer. Besides that's not something you need to decide right now, it's not that anybody is pressuring you.
Hope your parents manage to come on good terms again!
>>18424713
Then don't get married. Damn why's everyone gotta judge each other?
>>18424787
I'm honestly not sure they've ever been at good terms, they've got married to each other because they were both 'too old' not to have a so and kid(s). They're not even arguing that much, it's just sad and empty
Marriage is not for you it's for your children. If you have none or want none you shouldn't get married.
>>18424713
why red pill you on something you've already come to believe?