My ex started talking to me again. We ended (kind of bad) 2

>>18424677

Things are going badly with her new boyfriend and she's trying to sow the seeds so she can return to you if it does fuck up. Keep answers short, sharp and to the point. Do not play her games and do not, under any circumstances, reassure or compliment her.

Or cut contact all together...but we all know you won't do that.

>>18424683

Thanks for the insight. I'll keep that in mind.

Hehe, well I can fuck her yet again and trash her then. She's a good girl, though.

>>18424683
Honestly, I think you're paranoid. It sounds to me like she probably just wants attention or have sex, but probably not get back into a relationship.

As long as you can separate the two I don't see the harm in staying friends afterwards or becoming friends with benefits. Just because you don't want a relationship with her anymore doesn't mean you "do not, under any circumstances, reassure or compliment her."

>>18424693

Yeah, I too think she doesn't wants to get into a relationship with me again (but who knows).

To me, it is incredibly weird that she started talking to me again when she ignored me so harshly for 2 months, which is not that much time, though.

Also, she told me "I wanted to talk to you but I didn't knew what to say", so that for me sounds insecure and shit, when I, despite did suffered sadness and shit, I have always treated her, and will, like another human who wants to love and have sex, just like me; both of us are in the same needs, so I comprehend her, and talk to her like that, just another person.

So yeah, I would be friends, I would have sex with her. For me that's the good path to go after a breakup, so I'm treating her like that, a friend.

BUT, I'm intrigued about another possible theories.

>>18424683
This.

Also, three questions:

What the fuck is "NC"?
Why did you think we would know what "NC" meant?
How did mentioning this add any context to the situation?

>>18424677
>>18424929
TL:DR
>my girlfriend cucked me before dumping my sorry ass 2 months ago
>she has blessed me with her attention once again, keeping me as a reserve beta in case Jamal gets tired of her pussy
>how do I treat this situation?

>>18425079

Well in fact I dumped her because "reasons". I don't really care what's in her mind, but at least if there's possibility for sex I'm down for it.

>>18425063

You must be new here, or in life.

NC = No contact.

>>18425270
I've banged out nearly 30 hoes and have been on here since 2010.

Never heard it abbreviated to that.

>>18426397
>Banged 30 hoes

Confirmed virgin.

>>18426397
And yet you got cucked?

>>18426406
Wtf? I'm not OP, idiot. Read the chain of replies...

>>18426400
It's hilarious how the better I get in life, the more people think I have to be lying on here. I'm in the military, get paid well, stay very fit, and get to travel a lot, so I meet lots of women.

Sorry your life sucks.