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>i have a really hard time saying no to people
>especially if saying no would embarrass them
>every other time i go to a particular bar with my friends, there's is this girl there who keeps trying to get with me
she always grabs me at the end of the night/whenever i leave to walk her to her car, then she physically keeps pulling me back/holding me, basically until i kiss/make out with her. she's bigger than me, and something in my mind still says "don't tell her to fuck off, becuase that will embarrass her in front of all these people" and it makes me feel guilty. and now that it's happened a couple of times, i feel like i would be the one in the wrong by saying no, since i've "already done it" before. what do i do? i feel like if i was a woman, i'd get raped a lot.
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>>18423398
Be an adult and tell her your not that into her. You know you have a problem with saying no. You have a responsibility to actively work on say no to things you don't want. And yes you would totally get raped a lot.
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>>18423474
but i've already kissed her a few times, so she thinks i like her.
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>>18423476
We'll guess what you can change your mind. I feel for you man. I'm the same way to many extents. I don't like makeing other people feel bad. But if you don't want to do something then you don't have to do it. She might feel rejected. But remember you are livening your life you decide the outcomes. No one else. Also the more you say no. The more comfortable you'll be with it.
Repetition is key.
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>>18423398
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>>18423398
You are allowed to tell others you are uncomfortable. You cannot control how other people feel.
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