So my gf of about a year and she wants to have a 3 some one with

666 welcome to the carnal realm, a land of indulgence one layer above hell. Many orgasms lie ahead, but be careful. The descent is not a slow one.

Do whatever you want. I don't see the harm. If you're looking for a girl to marry, swing to a new branch when you get the chance (statistically speaking you should)

>>18421207

opening up a relationship like this is kind of a branching off point, but the desire is there so its going to happen or the relationship is going to dissolve.

so if you want to keep going, go for it. i would love to lick your balls while you fuck her, maybe DP her if we can fit them ion (im a little big)

enjoy OP

>>18421207
>be me
>talked about ffm with gf fr years
>basically talk about it every time we fuck
>6 years in we have our first
>7/10, like losing v card for better and worse
>no impact in out relationship
>skip two years
>have our second, 2/10 because the girl sucked
>get the third 2 months later
>8/10, beautiful girl, a real sweetheart
>few months later go to her house for the weekend (she lives in another city)
>11/10, have sex five times for hours, cuddle watching disney movies
>we're in love with her and she kinda is with us, a bit unsure because it's new to her and she's single
>Don't know where it's going but feels good man

Tl;dr: it takes a ton of maturity from the two of us to get through and survive, and you and her can get the feels for another person no matter how hard you try not to. Use escorts if you want to lessen the chance of it, but even then it's not guaranteed.

>>18421249
***the two of you

Also keep in mind that there has been some fights due to jealousy from her part, but out of insecurity and with no long term impact. It's the price to pay, almost impossible to not happen unless the two of you are 100% "free love" open minded

>>18421230
>Doesn't realize 666 is just mathematical spelling for Neron Caesar

>>18421207
Don't just do this because you're comfortable with it as you may find the sense of comfort disappears very quickly when you're in the situation.

Do it if both of you really want this and if you don't really want this you have to be honest and set the boundary.

>>18421240
>>18421258
>jealousy
>man licking your balls
See this is the stuff im warning you about

Great for casual, not so great for a committed relationship

Id rather just have a calculated affair that doesn't affect my important relationship (particularly by way of me not getting caught)

That probably has a better chance of not destabilizing a committed relationship.

>>18421292

>not wanting another man to lick your balls

thats how you prove your better than them tho

>>18421299
By not being a fancyboy

>>18421292
She got jealous in a few occasions, and I honestly can't blame her on a few where I did screw up. Hell, I even kissed the girl good night and totally forgot to kiss her out of sheer dumbness before sleeping.

Also, girls are prone to jealousy attacks anyway. My ex was sure I cheated her because I gave a friend a ride once. I'd much rather have to deal with jealousy coming from threesomes than stupid shit.

I do agree it can be destabilizing though, that's why I recommended that the two have to be really mature to talk it out. But if it comes to worse, it's better to risk it earlier in the relationship than later imo. The will to do something like that is hardly going anywhere.

>Anecdote: the first girl we did it with cheated on her bf because he didn't want to do it. AlanisIronic.mp3

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>>18421320

>mfw fancy but can still make other men submit to me while i fuck my wife

OP Here sorry for the late reply. Currently working and I'm on mobile.
>>18421230
Is it really not marriage material? I thought about that too. It's kinda weird because I thought of that too.

>>18421240
Not much of a fan of the ball licking but if your good looking enough I'd let you stick it in lel but you are bigger than me so I'll feel less of a man but I wouldn't knock it. I'm sure we can handle. She's very influences by this married couple she knows that is kinda doing the same thing.


>>18421249
This kinda happened or my gf. A couple actually started to like her a lot. And they were kinda disappointed that she refused the offer. It sounds like fun.
>>18421327
Most definitely. We haven't gotten into that point yet to where we're serious about it but when the time comes were definitely going to be open about what we want and we don't want.
How would you guys go about finding people? Tinder? Or just meeting people in general? I feel like just making acquaintances with people would be the most natural way, but I feel as if tinder would be the easiest way to find hotter chicks?

>>18421207
Becoming a KEK who wears a chastity cage - if that is the future you desire your gf will make it happen.

>>18421690
It's a shame us and that girl don't live in the same town. She had bad experiences with long distance relatuonships before so this only adds to the problems of a threeway relationship. We still talk a lot, but we haven't seen each other in person for a while now.

The first girl was a friend of a friend, he introduced her to us with that in mind already. The other two were on tinder. Tinder is the best bet if you're not into the gay scene, going to bars and such, where you can actually find bissexuals with more ease. There's also swing clubs, but you need some stomach there imo, so we went but never did anything with someone else besides fondling the dancers and one or other female guest

>>18421327
My style is probably to get laid elsewhere, don't fuck a drifter or sone msniac, get regular STD checks, and don't talk about it.

Seems like the safest way to stay out of trouble, but this is coming from a guy who could have sex with the same person his whole life so long as he loved her.

I think too much promiscuity is overindulgebt, slightly dangerous and even antisocial.

>>18421330
I bet you're not even gay. You just want the whole world to lick your butthole, and your wife to be covered in buckets of cum.

>>18421327
>>18421907
Also kissing the other girl? Smooth moves. You guys still together?

As for the people ITT saying that she's not marriage material or whatever, people have all kinds of marriages, swinger spouses are an entire scene. It is more important whether your sexual values align with her and whether you want out of a relationship what she wants than anything else.

Having said that, threesomes often wreck relationships even for two people who are 100% on board. Do not for a second consider to "put up" with the MFM for your FMF. You should both be honestly enthusiastic about doing both of these things before you can try them out. It sounds to me like you aren't that secure that this is what you want - hell, like she might not like the reality of another woman in bed with you as much as the fantasy, either.

If you don't care about the relationship potentially ending over this, do whatever you want to cross something off your bucket list.

>>18421207
>So my gf of about a year and she wants to have a 3 some one with a girl and one with a guy eventually within the next year.
>So my gf of about a year and she wants to have a 3 some
>So my gf of about a year and she
>my gf AND she
Sounds like you already got 3 people OP

>>18421953
There is nothing inherently wrong with a threesome, and the best spouse in the world could be into them, but certain things are a mark against a person statistically speaking (yellow flags). I just think about it mathematically, on top of seeing it as an unnecessary risk.

I think separating women you have threesomes with (which sounds exciting and fun), and women you want to marry (a serious investment), makes a lot of sense. Actually, I'm sure there are plenty of people who used to have threesomes but don't anymore.

Oh and there is a very real connection between sexual promiscuity and antisocial behavior (lying, stealing, cheating). This is a bit anecdotal, and specific to my limited experience in just one society, but it is true.

I aint gettin it with a dude. Hell no, now anotha bitch is cool but hell nah I aint doin a dude. With that said your girlfriend is better off being in a open relationship with a bisexual. Besides anon, you can have a threesome with her and another chick right now since she wants one with the dude later. You can just break up with her before she does the dude, hell brk up with her after the 3 sum with the chick. Don't cry because you know #thisaintaseriousrelationship

>>18422056
This

>>18422021
Sure there is a correlation between being into wilder sexual stuff and being less into monogamy. Not because they exclude one another but because these things don't exist in a vacuum and a woman who loves sexual thrills is also more likely to in general be more of the rushes and spontaneity and what not, and less of lifelong monogamy. But in that case the kind of person they are caused them to both seek out a lot of sex and to cheat or divorce. It isn't that they were good, loyal girls until a dick too many ruined them or something.

And at the end of the day you don't just have to go by statistics, you can also get to know someone and see for yourself what they are like. Not to mention everything else - if you want optimal chances you should also marry someone exactly your age, who is not the breadwinner (if you're a man), who is as educated as you are and no higher etc etc. If you want to follow all these criteria there is no room for personal priorities like feeling on the same wavelength and having compatible interests, unless you're a demi-God with a huge dating pool to choose from.

I think it makes sense in a way. But this is the exact kind of "I want to have my fun exciting nights with Chad and Tyrone before settling down with this reliable guy I am going to be conservative with in the bedroom" attitude that gets so much shit here usually.

>>18421907
That's the funny thing, I don't think we are promiscuous. We don't fuck anything on two legs and we use protection every time. We did three girls in two years, and two of then only once, which is far less sex than the average single guy.

I even joke that I'm not cut for promiscuity since I managed to get attached even doing a threesome lol. My gf is my second sexual partner even and we've been toghether for years. Fun fact: I've banged more chicks with her than alone

>>18421911
Me and my gf? Yes. The girl? Not really, we're very friendly and flirty with her but since we don't get to see her without going out of our ways for a meet up, we're not officially dating her or anything.

About the smooth moves, for that weekend for all we cared we were all dating. We only didn't bathe toghether because she didn't want to, probably too personal for her, but we all slept in the same bed, cuddled whatching movies, hell they even tried to remove blackheads from my back toghether.

Shit was cash man, I'd marry two women in the blink of an eye.

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>>18422102
>I think the average guy has way more than four girls a year
>she was my second girlfriend for a week. they picked my blackheads.
This doesn't sit right with me. Sounds kind of primitive. I actually think a threesome would be cool, but...