Hey, really need some advice. I've never been a social person,

>>18420721
You must not afraid to lose her, man. I know it hurts you, but if you really want it to develop into a romantic relationship you have to make the move. Should you stay afraid and just see how it will play out, soon she'll respond to another who showed a romantic intentions on her and I guarantee you'll become bitter and full of regret.

Better regret the shit you've done than shit you've not done.

If you want to do something, better make your romantic intention known. Better to not go cheesy way with love letter or love confession bullshit. Go with something subtle like touches, building the tension and letting it end in romantic release.
If you're to awkward to ask her out then, push yoursel. I don't mean you suddenly go to concert or some clubs dancing. Pick a place you both enjoy and try to share experiences together there. Even library works if it's your cup of tea.

>>18420743
The problem is that there is no school for the next two months, so the only way for me to meet with her would be to directly invite her out, and that is just too straight forward and awkward

>>18420749
Then she goes out with another who invited her out and they fucked. The end. If it ticks you wrong then JUST DO IT.
Would you rather be awkward for a maybe 10 - 30 minutes trying to ask her out, or being a bitter jaded person full of regret years later?

Excuse my bitterness, when reading your posts kinda threw me back into my school days. I've been in similar situation like yours and oh how I regret not throwing my fragile out of the window for 5 minutes back then and ask that one petite girl.
Even more worse that a while back when I was having a reunion, her friends told me that if only I asked her out things will be different and we could've been married by now.

Don't go in my way. Now I fucked whole lots of model girls, but I'll never be satisfied with that one that's gone. Also I'm bitter and jaded now.

Fuck your friend. Pretend to be alpha and put it in. Relationships and fucking are less of a deal than you are making it out to be.

>>18420721

Board is 18+. Don't spend too much time here. Your are not a jaded 25 yo virgin yet. Don't let them tell you what to do.

>>18420778
Makes sense dude. Now how do I ask her out? Cant call her because i dont have her number, we are not that close friends, i have her on facebook though. What do i say? Didnt talk to her for a long time since school ended, will be weird just asking her to go out directly out of nowhere, especially from me. How do i begin the conversation and lead it to us going out? Im really retarded in this stuff so help a dude out please.

>>18420802
Alright, you have her facebook. Today it'd be as good as having her number.

Obviously you're right to not just suddenly asking her out of nowhere. Try to go slow like this maybe, go message her on facebook, talk about what she's shared on her page, could be her favorites artists, topic, funny post, interests, hobbies.

The point is to get her to be comfortable with talking about lots of things with you in a relatively short timeframe, like a week or two at most. Of course if she gives a positive response, ask for her number. After you've got her number you could start to worry about trying to ask her out, but by then it shouldn't be that hard to pull.

>>18420820
I dont think that is the solution since i already sort of know her for aroud a year, and im really bad in talking over text so it could ruin things completely. I was thinking of sending some sort of an anonymous email but that is taking it too far and could even be creepy, which is the last thing i want.

>>18420853
Well, it looks like her impressions of you ain't bad either. At this point should you feel like it, asking her out directly via facebook should not become that awkward anyway.

You'll be surprised what being bold and determined could bring you to the table on relationship. No anonymous letter, that's creepy stalker shit.

Just message her, ask how her day when and casually invite her to meet somewhere you fancy. If she's reluctant to go alone, try to bring both of your friends together in the meet.

>>18420871
Ye i thought about going out with my friends as i do sometimes, but also invite her and her group of friends. I have no clue how to set that up though, could be awkward for both my friends and her friends

Another thing i worry about is the reaction of my friends if i do go out with her, since as i said they often joked about her appearance between us. Also if I get rejected the next few years that i will be spending in this school will be awkward because the word would spread that i got rejected by her. Its just an odd situation really..