I'm not sure how to feel
>Meet girl at work
>Hit it off go on a couple of dates
>3rd date take her to a event for a organization I'm with
>She gets fucked up at the bar and long story short I spend the night taking care of her
>Next day go over what happened
>Boss tells me that I fucked up and realized that too (we're friends outside of work)
>We both feel different about each other now because of the incident, she hasn't been drunk since and I don't feel comfortable around her but still like her
I'm just confused on what to do next or how someone would evaluate my situation and if I can unfuck it.
Also we have texted a lot less since the event
You fucked up
>>18419844
Some might say everyone is entitled to one fuck-up but not two, and you should continue with her for the good times. But if she seriously hurt you professionally you'd have to cut and run.
>>18419850
Did you bang? I feel that's an important question to answer
>>18419844
>>3rd date take her to a event for a organization I'm with
you took her to get gangbanged by your fratbros after slipping her a roofie? way to go bro
>>18419947
No I didn't bang it was just me taking care of her that night
>>18419951
First of all fuck you, second of all I didn't do shit that night to hurt her
>>18420002
Okay, all things considered, I feel your awkwardness towards her is mostly in your head.
You've texted a lot less, but not completely done with each other, right? Do you have it in you to initiate another spark before she heads off to another guy?
Also, you need to prepare yourself for the worst at all times and not go all in with your eggs. Make sure you choose a time soon to clear things up and ask her out again to see if you still have a shot, or end things properly and pursue someone else.
Friendship for the sake of love or sex is never the answer.
>>18420018
Your right, thank you anon for the advice it made me feel a lot better about this
Wait, what? How is this a fuckup from perspective of your boss? She got wasted but it's your fuckup? I assume that if you met her at work he's also her boss, so why isn't he mad at her instead? I don't get it.