>meet cute girl
>flirt all the time
>pretty sure shes into me, not 100% though
>Keep the flirting and bullshit going for months and months
>never make a move
>eventually we never see each other again
This has literally happened to me with just about every girl ive ever met. Im so fucking terrified of rejection. How the fuck can I get over it and just make the move? Im tired of torturing myself
I'm not sure what kind of advice you expect. Just do it and realize that getting rejected doesn't feel as bad as never trying and torturing yourself by thinking to yourself "what could have been"?
Honestly, you never really intuitively grasp that rejection doesn't matter until you actually get rejected a few times.
Oh no! She said no! Literally nothing else changed!
>>18418642
>>flirt all the time
What do you consider as flirt? Maybe you could be misunderstanding them
Just do it. Just make the move. Forget everything and fucking dive in. Because the way you act now, torturing yourself, is 100x more harmful than the actual rejection. If you get rejected, you'll feel bad for a while, get over it, but you'll actually have the balls to make moves from then on.
"We are more often frightened than hurt; and we suffer more from imagination than in reality."
>>18419597
sauce?
>>18418642
The greatest risk in life is not taking risks.
Dude I use to have your same problem.
If a women is giving you cues through flirting / body language its game on!
Go in STRONG, the worst ting you can do is make a half-assed week move. Instant turnoff...
Treat her body like a fast car, you drive it forcefully, but with respect.
If shes not down... its no big deal... women are use to this shit...
>>18418642
unless she glances at your penis she doesn't like you. Nothing else matters
>>18418642
Words to live by my dude
"It's always a no, if you don't ask"