I sort of hooked up with my coworker last night. We woke up together this morning and got an uber to our cars at the bar.
What is etiquette on these things. I know she just broke up with her boyfriend. Do we just pretend it didn't happen or what?
Just be cool
Don't deny that it happened but don't talk about it unless that you feel it's necessary I'm some way. And by no means catch feelings
Must suck knowing she might of did it bc she was feeling lonely, but just give it time and if you like her well go ahead and just make it a fuckfriend thing, unless you really want something special or you are able to get an other job. (I over think things sorry)
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>>18416261
That's probably the best advice I can hear, thanks. I don't find myself in these scenarios often so I don't want to come off as a dick or something.
>>18416275
I honestly don't care that much if it was just because she was feeling lonely after a break up. We've only worked together for like 3 weeks so I'm not super attached to the idea of trying to make it a relationship in the future.
>>18416288
Yeah, so just play it out like a "I was hella drunk".
As a follow up question, is it weird to invite her out for drinks again or does that just seem transparent?
Feel like I'm in a weird position.
>>18416332
I kind of want to play it out like that but it feels disingenuous.
>>18416383
It really depends on the back story, like if she was down from the get go or if you were the one that was insisting in hooking up or if it was mutual the decision well just make it a fun thing.
>>18416380
if you want more of the same, yeah, why the hell not?
just play it cool, and see how and if she reacts when you next meet, then take it from there.
a manly wink or some innuendo might get the ball rolling - if she's up for it or not, you'll know quick enough.
>inb4 sexual harassment suit
>>18416507
I definitely wasn't the one pushing for it initially but I'm not sure if she was down because she was drunk or actually interested. For what it's worth, other people who were there commented that it seemed like she was in to me but I wasn't getting that vibe at the time.
>>18417023
Thanks for the advice. I think you're right and I just need to see how things are when we cross paths again.