I (gay) am afraid to have sex with people I know personally because im worried they will look at me differently because of it.
I feel like people will find it difficuly to fully respect me if they've seen me squirm with their cock in my ass.
Is this irrational? How do i get over this feeling?
>>18412175
Go to /lgbt/ they'll be better equipped to help
Are you comefortable with heterosexual intamicy?
>>18412175
Just fuck strangers then, casual sex as a gay man is available as fuck.
>>18412449
yh thats what ive done so far
but i would like a bf at some point i think
>>18412459
Yeah...you're gonna have a tough time there. Think of it like this. The sexual game when it comes to heterosexuals is "dude wants sex, girl wants commitment, they meet in the middle and have a relationship that includes both."
The natural conclusion based on that, and on what I've heard from gay people, is that this happens:
Gay guys: Rampant casual sex, but really hard to get a committed relationship
Gay girls: No problem getting a relationship, but even more dead bedroom than in hetero relationships.
So yeah, you CAN get and keep a boyfriend, but I'm afraid it's not gonna be easy.