How do you know your messages are bothering people? I have

Why make it complicated? Just ask.

>>18410676
Because I doubt he'll admit that my messages are bugging him, even if that's the case. He'll be perfectly polite and say the right thing...

i'm a bit like your friend. i also have a few people i mostly communicate trough messages. i value them a lot, but i don't really wnjoy texting since it seems to take so much time and effort to say stuff you could say in a matter of seconds. texting convos are exhausting for me.
if i find the time, i still talk to them that way, but then life happens and i get distracted. often, i actually forget that i was texting with them. looking at my phone is not my priority. maybe i went to the toilet and had time to text you a lengthy message, but then i put my phone into my pocket and went grocery shopping. i might have had the intention to keep writing you, i might also wuickly read your answer before getting into the car, but then i could have met a friend at the shop and we decided to go grab a coffee, and when i came home i was already a bit late, so i had to put away the groceries, take a shower, do some work and then i went to bed snd fell asleep and completely forgot i was supposed to text you back again. i'll get to you again, but that might be 2-3 days later.

>>18410670
i have the exact same thing going on with me anon
i know the feeling too well

>>18410670
Reported