Sup
I'm not inexperienced with girls sexually, but I've only been in one 6 month relationship because reasons.
Now I'm in the position where there is a girl who is possible relationship material, and another who I've just been sexting so far.
My question is do I let potential relationship girl know about the other one in early stages?
I could see it as either making her jealous and wanting me more, or putting her off because she thinks I'm just fucking around
Interested in your thoughts
you're quite the good catch aren't you?
>>18407410
not sure what you're getting at breh
bump
bumpty
I was in the gender reverse situation.
I wish I had told potential boyfriend about the sex guy in the early stages.
I didn't, and it led to a big blowout down the line, where things got more serious with potential boyfriend and I felt obligated to tell him the full truth.
Now that I think about it, things would have been fine if I hadn't said anything at all, but it weighed on my conscious a lot.
It depends on how you feel about keeping secrets from (potential) partners.
>>18407438
that's a good point, what they don't know can't hurt them.
I mean it's not like you're obligated to be exclusive until it is a legit relationship, but if they found out it could lead to trust issues I guess
>>18407453
Yeah
My problem was I didn't discuss with him what we "were" often enough. He confessed his feelings, I turned them down, but then 5 months later his feelings just got stronger, and I failed to keep him in check.
To him it had become a legit relationship, to me it wasn't (because we hadn't had a serious discussion about us being exclusive), but you can imagine when I told him it hurt him a lot.
>>18407462
So are you together now? he sounds a little clingy if I'm honest
>>18407468
Yeah we are.
Yeah a bit clingy, but it's his first relationship so I think it kind of comes with it.
>>18407475
ah I see. cool well have fun relationshipping
>>18407488
Thanks
Hope you find the advice you're looking for.
>>18407500
looking doubtful will probably just go with the old gut
or fuck up the potential relationship and be worry free
its all good