People are saying I'm a slut even though I haven't

Who cares what other people think. O wait thats impossible for you dickless humans. Either that or stop masturbating and just fuck actual guys so people are no longer telling lies about you.

>>18407014
Tell the fags to stop listening to you fap

>>18407014
what noise do you make?

put it on vocaroo

Can't be a slut if none of them are man enough to fuck you when you're obviously ready to go.

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>>18407014

>People are saying I'm a slut even though I haven't had sex in years, I think it's because they hear the noises I make when I'm masturbating and think I have a guy in my room

>>18407017
How do you stop caring what people think?

>>18407077
First, eat healthily, full stomach.
Second, exercise regularly, sleep early.
Third, you need to take a huge dump in a public place then eat it to truly stop caring.

>>18407014
stop camming in semi-public.

If you know anyone in particular who overhears you, just scream out the name of someone they're close to while you masturbate. It's not helpful, but it sure as hell would be entertaining.

>>18407136
So there's no way of getting rid of my reputation?

>>18407014
masturbate louder and more obnoxiously, that will make people stop caring. how old are you by the way? I can only imagine you living in a college dorm if this is your biggest problem.

>>18407956
you're a young woman in college. if it makes you feel better any time you see a girl who looks as pretty or prettier than you, but doesn't have a committed man, chances are everybody thinks she's a slut too. such is life.

>>18407963
26, I went to college late.

>>18407968
I'm not even pretty at all.

>>18407014
God dammit, why do I find this hot.

Are you sure that calling you a slut isn't a low key/"humorous" way to tell you they don't want to hear any of your solo sex life?

>>18407014
start having lots and lots of sex.
People already think you're a slut anyway.

>>18408012
Definitely not because no one has ever told me to my face, it's all behind my back so it's not a humorous dig being aimed at me

>>18408022
The irony is I don't even enjoy sex with other people, just masturbation

>>18407038
This, OP.
You need to do this for further analysis.

>>18408410
I'm not even making that much noise, it's only speculation on my part that this is the reason why people are saying I'm a slut.

>>18408702
vocaroo pls
Do a 15 minutes test session, complete anonymity

>>18407014
Sounds like they just don't like you, and are using a gendered insult as a general placeholder for saying that you're an asshole. Are you antisocial and in general unpleasant?

Anyways, not much you can do about it. Your school year probably just ended, so maybe request a dorm transfer and start anew somewhere else on campus and make sure you cultivate stronger relationships there.

>>18407014
Do you wear revealing clothes? Are you overly flirtatious with a large number of guys? If the answer to those questions is yes, stop doing them if you don't want to be considered a slut by people who don't actually know you. If the answer is no, you could try masturbating silently like a normal person instead of moaning like a chick in a porn flick.

>>18407014
Do you interact with these people at all outside of them hearing you masturbate? If that's all they know about you, of course they will come to this conclusion. Maybe get to know them a bit and subtly work into the conversation you've not had a bf in years?

>>18407014
Should probably not wear that outfit then

>>18408776
I guess I'm a loner but I don't think I'm unpleasant

I've never been able to cultivate strong relationships, only acquaintances, I just suck at socialising, maybe I'm not interesting enough, I don't know

>>18408781
No I wear a huge jacket or coat almost all the time, the weather here is very cold

I rarely get a chance to interact with people, let alone flirt with guys

I don't even make much noise, maybe a small noise when I orgasm and that's it

>>18409102
I say hello and exchange pleasantries with them, that's about it

>>18407014
Stop making noises when you masturbate, duh

>>18407014
Lot of people call women sluts because they're jealous, heads up.

>>18407014
Who's saying you're a slut just from noises from your room? What the fuck? Roommates? Mom? Neighbors?

>>18409171
I don;t know whether it's the noises or not, I'm just speculating, I don't really know why they're calling me a slut, but everyone is convinced that I'm a nympho

I guess roommates and the people who live in this building.

>>18409177
Maybe you just have one of those faces

>>18409177
Are you sure theyre not fucking with you because you're a loner or you're just hot?

>>18409164
Maybe you have a slut face. Tbqh you sound pretty hot in an unconventional way.

>>18408026
>it's all behind my back
So how do you people are calling you a slut? Is your campus mainly liberal/is that a bad thing?

>>18407014
Maybe turn down porn volume. Also, marry me.

>>18409461
I use headphones

>>18407014
how do you masturbate?
and how often?

>>18410407
once a week or so

I just rub my clit, if I'm feeling adventurous I'll use a magic wand vibrator

>>18407077
if you want to care about a temporal figment of another persons imagination that will be forgotten 10 seconds later, a figment that has no actual physical impact on you and neither is an accurate portrayal of objective reality. be my guest.

no need to care about what poeple THINK, start caring when they actually say things. and even then carefully consider caring for it.

actually try to think why you care anyway, why is it that you actually have those thoughts that you relate to the feeling of "caring what others think"

do you think you can actually be confident if you care what others think of you?

also not caring what others think of you doesn't mean you'll act immorally, quite the opposite actually. (one of the worries i had personally)

caring what others think of you may also severely compromise your personal values and do more harm then good to others because of it, (not living according to your values causes depression and unhappiness/discontentness)

caring what others think of you could actually be quite a selfish thing to do even though it might not seem like it. (it's just a way to avoid situations and feelings, a coping mechanism left over from when you where dependent on other humans)

also being considerate is different from caring what others think of you. so don't think you can't empathize without caring what others think of you, that'd be a faulty believe.

actually if you avoid those feelings of guilt you'll never actually learn how to properly act in the situation. avoidance leads to more avoidance because you haven't learned to deal with the situation healthily. downward spiral :/

that's my view on why not to care of what other people think.

you can't just change this immediately, it's quite a complex system you'd have to understand to change it. do some introspection on this if you want to stop caring. i highly recommend you do because it changes your and other's life's for the better

>>18410470
wouldn't you prefer other guy rub your clit for you?

>>18410490
Thanks anon

>>18410769
No, it feels better when I do it myself, even with lots of instruction a guy will not do it as well as I can

>>18411464
i think you're destined to be alone in that case, your neighbours just better get used to it

>>18411468
Wouldn't I make just as much noise with another person than by myself?