What can someone do to make you feel special? My boyfriend told

>>18403830
First thing's first. You're not his mum. He needs to want to get better himself, and thus put the effort in.

He clearly has depression. It's a serious problem, but with easily attempted remedies.
>eat well and regularly
>keep sleep schedule regular
>less computer, more natural light
>go on walks
>avoid drugs, no more than one unit alcohol a day

>>18403854
I know I'm not his mother but it's kinda hard seeing someone you care about be so sad. And thanks anon! I'll try to make him go on jogs/walk after his workout.

be cuddly and affectionate
>tfw you realize not a single woman you've dated has given a shit enough to think
>I really want to make him feel special and cared about.

>>18403891
We act/are lovingly and affectionate towards one another except kissing/sex. And I'm sorry about that anon! You'll find someone one day.

>>18403830
Your boyfriend is suffering from a severe depression. He needs professional help. Go see a psychiatrist.

>>18404596
What do I do if he says he doesn't want to. I've discussed this with him before but I think he's to prideful.

>the only thing that makes him happy right now is Black Desert Online

Stuck on his computer screen while you try to be loved. Sure he's depressed, but if he's not trying to fix his issues you guys wont last long.

>>18404880
I've discussed it but he hasn't tried to get better. I'm scared and unsure what to do to save us.

Need more info femanon.
Who's working and paying bills?
What other friends does he have?
What is his day like? Break it down.

>>18404977
Sorry! He works salary job and pays rent. I offered to help but he says no. He has no friends in our state but is meeting with one this Saturday so I'm hoping it will lift his spirits a bit.

Usually he wakes up, has coffee, play video games, go work, come back, work out, play video games, eat, sleep. Cycle repeat. I know for a fact work stresses him out and I've tried to get him to go out and do things. Am I not trying hard enough?

>>18404988
It's hard to say. He might need tough love, e.g. turning off the computer but obviously you can't make him do anything. Some people are lost causes.

>>18404988
Have you tried offering to do things together? That might work better than trying to make him go for a jog alone.

>>18405004
I've invited him to Catalina Island, Knotts, getting massage together, going to the shooting range, hiking. Usually turns me down.

>>18405014
Best bet is to get him to see a shrink and other than that asked him why he's so fucked up at the moment. Also when did this start and did anything significant happen at that time?

>>18405024
6 months ago he thought I cheated on him. We cleared everything up but I think he still has resentment towards me even though we have both been 100% loyal to one another. He only told me he still had that hurt in him 2 months ago

>>18405115
What made him think that you cheated on him?