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So my gf of like 5 months broke up with me over text a couple

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So my gf of like 5 months broke up with me over text a couple minutes ago, her reasoning was that she "didn't feel a romantic spark" and that it had nothing to do with anything I did and that it was only because she just thought it wouldn't be fair for us to be in a relationship where one of us didn't feel anything for the other. I can get that, but being the kind of person I am I have to blame myself for not being romantic at all. I'm particularly bummed because she was the first girl I've dated since high school (3 years ago), a genuinely gorgeous fat girl - which is like finding a unicorn for a chubby chaser like myself, and also a virgin - which is equally unicorn status. We never fucked.

I think I'm just having trouble accepting that I'm not cut out for romance because I want to get laid at least once with a girl I find sexy, but at the same time I'm okay with just jerking it. I guess I just want to say I've fucked just to say I've fucked.

Looking to vent some, I guess.
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>>18396739
>gf of like 5 months
>We never fucked
Jesus Christ OP.
I'm going to be completely straight with you.
You had to make a fucking move.
Girls don't feel attracted to guys who can't take charge and fuck them.
Movies lie to you. Girls don't just want a nice, romantic guy. Girls want a fun, dominant guy who's willing to take chances.
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>>18396739
Geez if you're a chubby chaser, the current world is your oyster. Find one you like and make her feel pretty and sexy and she'll be giving it up in no time. Nothing quite like getting your hands on a big fat butt when your banging I've got to say.
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>>18396755
You see I was thinking the same thing, but her previous relationship that lasted 2 years ended after her boyfriend pressured her for sex too much, and if she claims to be a virgin I'm willing to bet she doesn't want to fuck period. If there's any truth to that, I don't that would have worked either. But I guess I'll never know
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>>18396766
>I'm willing to bet she doesn't want to fuck
Unless she's devoutly religious, she wants to fuck.
Even if she's a fanatic, she probably still wants to fuck.
So why did she dislike the guy who "pressured" her?
It's because he either asked for or demanded sex verbally, instead of turning her on to the point where sex naturally happens.

Besides which, sex is only a small piece of the puzzle.
You have to be a confident polarizing person.
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>>18396765
I don't find this to be the case thought. With the current "body positivity" movement, most fat girls who are genuinely attractive are aware of it and have very high standards because they know they are extremely desirable within their niche. Its like supply and demand - with demand so high for things that are so rare, you have pay a premium to get that commodity.
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>>18396778
>You have to be a confident polarizing person

Well shit, I have the most self-esteem I've ever had in my 21 years of existence and that's saying a lot considering previous years. If I can't even make it with that much I guess I'm screwed in the long run.
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>>18396780
Sorry kid, things used to be easier. Big girls were the easiest (and usually the best) to get back in the day. Mine wasn't big when I locked her down so she needs the reassurance that I like that big ass she's got now. Different generations, different problems.
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>>18396845
I sure wish I liked normal women, this is such a retarded problem to have
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>>18396739
Maybe you're just better off on your own, there's honestly no shame in that. Either way I wouldn't let this get you down in the long run, if you're only 21 you've got your whole life ahead of you
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>>18396765
Not fucking really. Fat bitches are filled with empty self esteem these days that tells them they have the same value as an attractive woman.
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>>18396854
No point in shaming yourself for how your brain works. There's nothing you can do about it so best you can do is deal
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Would it even be worth asking her if it was because I didn't fuck her at this point? I have this vague semblance of hope that if she says that is the reason I can get her back and just dick her like I should
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Masturbation is better desu
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>>18398495
Why not? You don't have much to lose. Just be sure it isn't interpreted as a snarky "IS IT BECAUSE I????" and sounds like an actual question.
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>>18398495
Worth a shot
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