tl;dr How to last longer in bed? Me and gf finally lost our

>>18393262

Addendum: Tried masturbating before sex, doesn't help, I just feel more sore and come as fast as usual. I take breaks sometimes, like every 30 secs but that is just kinda meh.

>>18393262
try edging

go as long as you can without cumming
pull out, make out
change positions
restart
repeat

>>18393275
I take some pauses to regain my senses and then go again.
Idk, she's really much hotter than I ever expected to get, maybe it's that.

>>18393262
drink and get beer dick? idk im a 23 y/o virgin

Have you considered not Jackrabbiting her?

>>18393294
Yes, it's even worse when I go slow, I feel like I am gonna explode with every slow thrust.

>>18393262
reverse kegels to stop yourself from ejaculating.

>>18393262
>>18393783
yeah you can do kegels, that's pretty much it. ejaculation is a reflexive thing tho, hard to "control". does your gf cum as well or are you asking because you're cumming before she is?

>>18393797
Cumming before she is, prolly wouldn't be asking if she was

There's nothing wrong with finishing early on your first sexual encounter. Typically, the only people that last long during their first time are anxious people who don't cum at all.

With that said, my advice would be to exercise often, especially before sex. When your body has already released endorphins through exercise, it will be less willing to release them through the means of orgasm. Cardio exercise is especially effective, as it has the added effect of indirectly exercising your kegel muscles.

What is an acceptable amount of time to fuck before cumming?

>>18394149
Enough that the experience was interesting and pleasurable
It can be 10 minutes,it can be one hour
(I'm talking about the whole thing, foreplay and actual penetration)

Lol nobody lasts long their first time, don't sweat it.

It just takes time to get better, that's all. Practice makes perfect.

Have more sex, get a little better. Repeat. Everyone cums quick at the beginning cause its so fucking good mate. Chat to gf, so u wanna last longer but shes hot and it feels so good fukcing her that you cum and that u will get better.

Also, if she just lost vieginity shes not getting to climax from penetration for a bit anyway. There is no rush, enjoy the quick comes, just fucos on slowing down at some bits and speeding up.

relax. you've had your fun - and that's all that matters!

Did you come in her bleeding virgin snatch?

>>18393262
Try dry cum.
Takes some time but can be used during sex.
Training:
1)masturbate until you are going to come 2)before you get your contractions, contract your prostate/ass for a good minute DO NOT let go! Best position is lying on the bed.

Practice:
Have sex until you feel like coming, at this moment EXTRACT yourself and make the same contraction. Tell your gf to not move for a good minute. You will look stupid, but she will know it's worth it because she gets a next round!! If you are worried she does not orgasm because you come first, i promess this makes you last WAY longer.
Partial cumming will ruin the effect, and you won't stay hard, sadly. Don't feel frustrated at the beginning, it takes practice.

Np bro

The way i did it was change positions
Its a good way to calm down and have more fun amd explore

ICECUBES

>>18393331
How desensitized to porn are you? Slow thrusts only make me cum if I haven't jerked ever and the highlight reel in my head isn't playing and my back hasn't been clawed to death. Point is sensitivity can be managed.

When I feel like I'm about to cum I try to recite the whole squad of my favorite football team

It helps but I wouldn't recommend doing it out loud tho

>>18394574
Lmao

Interesting...
I did not cum when I had sex the first time. I can last pretty much indefinitely in bed. Only way for me to nut is to clinch my dick and thrust fast and eventually I'll nut with a lot of hard fucking.

It hasn't changed even when I stopped fapping. I don't fap anymore and have sex with my GF once a week. The hilarious part is that when I would fap, I'd cum in 30 seconds.

Betty good, I'm OK with this.

>>18394350
Did you manage it? I've been trying on and off for years and think i'm close, but not there yet

>>18394657
Yes, it definitely works. I do it often with my gf, like half of the time to make sure she come as well.
I can fap several times a day without a drop but at a certain point it becomes difficult to contain.
During sex I can do it two times but once is enough and less risky.
For me extended and closed legs works better to get the best prostate contraction (if prostate is contracted during climax, then it cannot pump the semen up, so maintain it long enough).
Applying the skill to bed is not too hard, you just need to tell the girl to not touch you when you do this.