All the casual sex I've had (which has included oral and

>>18392423
Girl?
Age?
Mental issues?
Medication?
How does orgasm feel like?
Birth control?
Describe how you feel when aroused.
Do you have any fetishes? Kinks?
Favourite type of porn?
Abused as kid?
Raped?
Why do you keep having sex if it doesnt feel good? Social pressure?
Do you fap?
Does your pussy get wet enough?

>>18392423
>all the casual sex i've had i've felt nothing from

maybe step spreading your legs for every guy in the bar and try to develop an actual relationship for someone you care about and who cares about you

>>18392423
Your oxytocin pathways are already fried. Better luck next life, slut.

>>18392479
YOURE JUST INSECURE

YOURE A MISOGYNIST SEXIST NECKBEARD VIRGIN

ITS 2017 WOMEN CAN FUCK WHOEVER HOWEVER HOWEVER MANY PEOPLE SHE WANTS AND NOT GET JUDGED FOR IT, FAGGOT

>>18392466
Yes I'm a girl.
24.
No mental issues.
No medication.
I've only orgasmed by myself and it just feels like a release and the end of the small amount of pleasure I built up. Nothing special or amazing, I only do it to get to sleep.
Not on birth control.
If I have a sexy thought then I might have a quick one second stomach flip, I might get a slight throbbing in my vulva.
My fantasies are mostly submission, bondage, rape etc.
I like porn with middle aged men, gangbangs etc
Not raped, some physical and mental abuse from family but typical of someone with my ethnic background
I keep having sex because the orgasms I have by myself (and I've tried every masturbation technique possible) doesn't give me good orgasms, only shitty ones, so I'm trying to find a way to get satisfaction
I stopped fapping 7 months ago
My pussy is generally wet all the time, but I never get aroused enough to get wet when someone is fucking me.

>>18392530
>submission, bondage, rape
Nice, you are as average girl as it gets.

>physical and mental abuse
>never get wet enough when someone is fucking me
There, your answer.

Your view on sex is messed up. You have to learn how to trust the guy you are sleeping with, fall in love with him ideally and have him tie you up, slap your ass and call you slut while he rapes you.

Your first step towards salvation is to stop sleeping around casually, find ONE boy you will adore / love / want to have his babies with and literally force yoursef to relax and trust him completely.

Also part of your problem is expecting to feel sex super good. The best part of sex is seeing your partner to go crazy for your body and seeing him shudder in pleasure.

Tldr find qtie boy who will have eyes only for you and train together.

>>18392508
Trying way to hard here. I didn't even kek from this

>>18392564
The thing is all the boys I've adored have never liked me back

I wish I could have sex with someone I was in love with and could trust but I just don't know how to make it happen.

>>18392586
>how to make it happen
Patience, dating and meeting as many guys as you manage and a bit of luck.

Also to secure qtie bf, you have to offer something yourself. Do you have such a thing femanon?

>>18392423
>it's another anon tries to validate themself on the Internet episode

>>18392597
How do you get dates? I've tried online dating but had horrible experiences and am too scared to do it again. I've never been able to get a date in real life

What kind of things do boyfriends want that I can offer them?

>>18392605
>horrible
How horrible? Fake photos? Jerks? Tried to steal your kidney? Best advive is to keep trying.

>date in real life
As in nobody asked you on one? Do you know you can approach boys yourself? Friends friends and social events? Just chat whoever boy you see and if he wont ask for your phone number by the end of conversation, give it to him anyway. He may call or wont. Just keep pushing your luck.

>can i offer
For r9k guys? Ability to look at them and exist.
For normies? Dont be fat.
For chad? Have 10/10 body and 8/10 face.

It also doesnt hurt to have personality. And if anybody will ask, tell them you slept with 2~4 guys at max. Make some story about being inexperienced.

>>18392628
I've tried asking guys out, even ugly ones, but surprisingly the uglier ones reject you in the rudest way, maybe because they're more insecure? Attractive guys are always going to smile at you and maybe even ask you to dance

I'm 24 now and have just about given up on ever finding a boyfriend

>>18392644
How fat are you and do you live in usa?

>>18392530
>some physical and mental abuse from family but typical of someone with my ethnic background
Asian?

>>18392479
this

Alas, the solution is so obvious, that OP is either a troll or retarded. OP has nothing to gain here, other than attention.

sage

>>18392654
160lbs 5'6

No, UK

OP you're a basic bitch. I've heard the same complaints from basic southern girls from redneck states. They typically go out with "hood niggas," are disillusioned, are charged at least with misdemeanor if not felony, and shitpost on Twitter about their lives.

You need to step up your game

>>18392689
I'm a computer scientist and slightly eccentric, if that's considered not being 'basic'.

>>18392682
Sorry, i am out of advices.

Dont lose hope, keep dating and dont sleep around casually. Also when boy likes you enough, he will stay even without sex.

Try to read some books to gain additional wisdom and adopt some sport.

>>18392706
Are you in London? I'm also a CS grad though I'm asexual but maybe we can philosophize together

>>18392730
Get it, boiii

>>18392706
What ethnicity are you?

If you are black thats a tough one. Outside of immature or fetushized men you really got to have sellable qualities. Good family, good values, smart and clear ambitions. If not you are gonna have a hard time dating. A lot of men unintentionally or not see average black women as poor dating material due to their generally mediocre family background and lack of drive and good family.

If east Asian its salvagable. Focus on your feminine traits, career and social. Exercise, out yourself out there and try to relax.

A very common but barely mentioned problem its peoples fear of others. Address and fix yourself first in areas you feel need attention. Build yourself, your confidence, hobbies. Make yourself a desirable person to be around and leartn more about you.

If you are Asian, many men, good men also seek out talented and intellugent young asian women. Focus on your strengths and you will attract a fine man who you can love and enjoy love making for the first time.

Sex is mainly emotional for women so yes love will help a lot. Worst case you can have fun teaching him new stuff in bed.

Good luck regardless.

>>18392941
Turkish.

Unfortunately not an ethnicity that's considered highly desirable by men.

God I wish I was Asian!

>>18392952
Nono. That is actually fine. Just I asked cause blacks statistically are considered the least dgesirable women. I too despite my own background and met many nice ones, just dont have an interest in black women. Most dont sadly.

My advice for the asian girl still applies. A cultured, educated and down to earth girl shines out so much from todays dull and cultureless cities. You being in UK should be a sinch.

You obviously dont have trouble picking up guys but I think, purely from what you have said, you may need to focus on your appearance. Or how you present yourself.

How many have you brought home to meet your parents? Was a recurring trend or comments what they said about you?

Relfect on that.

Also are you on the pill? From my limited knowledge that can shoot a womans sex drive.

Plus you are 24. No rush. Do try to stop bumping aroundg with lads though. Just like with men, too much shagging can mess up your brain wiring and attraction to others.

But yeah, focus on your qualities. Shape yourself into a smart, grounded, educated and well rounded woman with hobbies and interests. You will be fine so long as you do that and dont fall to the consumerist culture (too much, we all love our shopping).

Have substance and character and things will fall into place.

ffs
>this whole thread.

it's time to get off the internet for today.

>>18392952
>you may need to focus on your appearance. Or how you present yourself.

Sorry forgot to follow up on this. You obviously are attractive to bag guys but maybe the guys just werent decent?

How you act to others will influence who will come to you. Guys in this case. Cleaning your image up may get you a higher class of guys. Make yourself look and be valuable.

Which matches what I said last post: REAL interests, grounded, friendly and approachability (huge) will make you find a man easy.

Also for the love of god do NOT dye your hair or become a radical feminist. Instant turn off and you will waste years of your life with a complex and brainwashed shite. I only say this as i know this is blowing up in the uk so beware.

Most women and men are slopppy, boring and dull. Good men and women ala high class educated people with good families are gold. Unlike men, as woman can actually do so without the financial requirment. She need only make wise investments (save money) improve her social skills and presentation. Top that with a high education like as masters, multi languages and friendly demeanour you are goid to go.

A more personal opinion but less make up is a bonus assuming you have nice natural features. Women with make up used to stand out but jow a natural face which is healthy stands head over the rest.

Oh and looking healthy. My last 2 cents. Have a good un op.