I'm heavily into some weird, uncommon and degenerate kinks.

>>18387427
No fap no porn for 1~2 months. Should normalize your brain.

If the urge to fap wil be unbearable, fap to your imagination only. Out of sight, out of mind. Good luck!
https://yourbrainonporn.com/

>>18387436
This is dumb, I only masturbate like a few times a week anyway, and it generally isn't to porn. I don't feel like I have a problem with masturbation, but I've had some sexual fixations since before I was even relatively normally sexual

>>18387439
Ok then.
Age gender, relationship status, what fetishes and why are they problem?

>>18387477
23, male, single (and gay by the way), and there are a few but I'll say scat because that outlines the issue well enough.

no problem necessarily with the act, the problem is I'm not going to ever find someone who's into this if I don't pursue it for its own sake, but I wouldn't want to do that because I don't want to have a strictly sexual relationship with someone. not like there's scat dating sites either, and even then, I feel strange about the idea of being in a community defined by sexuality even if it isn't supposed to be outwardly sexual.. In fact, that last point applies to my life as it is since I'm also a [spoiler]furry[/spoiler]

>>18387427
Old fart here

One of the few pieces of wisdom I've picked up over the years is that almost every nice suburban house has some weird sex going on inside it.

Perfectly normal people can have sexual fetishes or preferences that they engage in in the privacy of their own perfectly normal homes, to the mutual delight of both parties.

Find a girl who enjoys what you do and there is absolutely no reason why you can't have a fulfilling and "normal" monogamous life.

>>18387487
I like the fact that on 4chan scat doesnt deserve [spoiler] but being furry is :-D

Dude, ask yourself this one question:
What is more important for you?
Have somebody you will be able to cuddle, tell him you love him and suck his dick off reguraly.
Or
Have somebody you can shit on while being in your fursona suit?

I am not saying you cant have both, but your sole answer on this should give you a hint if you will look for your significant other on fetlife or grinder. And no, as gay your dating pool is already limited so even if on grinder are 90% only casual sex looking for faggots, it is still better than nothing.

>>18387507
I mean really the former by leaps and bounds, but why not both? I'm going to continue to stick to the former if I could only have one or the other, but I really would want both, so I'm only wondering if it's a possibility. I feel like I wouldn't enjoy anonymous sex for some reason, or would feel too dirty (ironic), pointless, guilty, etc.

The furry fandom is weird; it suggests that maybe you can have both, because people are so open about their fetishes. So, you can find someone like you easily enough right? The thing is, almost every furry also wants to have sex with whoever, it's like a social nicety honestly. I don't know if my chances for finding someone like myself are better in the fandom or I'm going to continue to feel fairly different and alienated the longer I'm associated with it.

Hey OP, I'm pretty young myself and I'm in a bit of a simile situation. I accept that it'll be damn near impossible to find the perfect girl who also shares the same kinks as me, so I'm currently just fulfilling that one dirty kinks with one night stands and stuff, just to get it out of my system.

Once I've settled down with a wife, I probably won't explore that kink ever again, and hopefully I'll be fine because at least I tried it when I was younger.

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>>18387528
By my limited experience with furries, they tend to be VERY open minded people about sexuality and fetishes.

Just snap out from your prejudices and try some dating site / forum targeted at furries. I feel like 50% furries are gay or bi anyway. Go to furry conventions and just jump into the dating scene.

As far as scat go, that will probably become your unfulfilled fetish.

Good luck with your dating. And remember, it takes huge patience and bit of luck before you will meet your husbando. Always prefer personality before kinks. Great sex isnt that good when your partner abuses you or treats you like shit for the rest of day.

>bonus question
Post your fursuit / persona.
I never understood why has 4chan so negative opinion about pic related when anime is basically praised like god.

>>18387554
If you find good wife, she should be willing to fullfil some of your fantasies just for you.

>>18387558
>they tend to be VERY open minded people about sexuality and fetishes
It is very true. I have a lot of experience with furries actually, I don't have prejudices that would lead me to not interact with them. It still makes me uncomfortable though on a lot of levels, to have friends and s/os that don't think of sex in a way similar to you. I like seeing discretion in people; I know I have no right to judge anyone, but it's something I personally value. Or is this too hypocritical? To me it doesn't seem hypocritical, just two totally different and perhaps unfortunate (but not necessarily incompatible) values

Also I'm a tiger, don't have any pics though

>>18387554
Eh, I really don't know what it is, and I'd honestly like to figure it out... I just /don't/ really want to hook up with people. I think about my situation and wonder if I'm just repressed or in denial or prudish. There aren't any clear answers, maybe I am... but at the same time I feel like I'd be going against what I want to do by being promiscuous. I wonder if this is relatable or not. No one I know relates to it, but I may just know weird fucking people

>>18387427
If you're a girl, it's basic bitch tier.

If you're a guy, there are plenty of dedicated forums for fellow kinksters who are into weirder shit than you are.

>>18387569
You are just scared of opening yourself to somebody. You want pure love in monogamous exclusive relationship where only you and your lover knows what you do.

Stop being scared tiger and go find some faggot fox or doggo to hump you silly.

GO FOR IT FAGGOT!
Good luck.

>>18387579
Ayy, thanks, although I mean I have had significant relationships with people and have had sex of course... This is pretty much exactly where I'm at and what I do and what my experiences have been.

Still. It doesn't answer whether I'll actually ever end up meeting people that I can do the crazy shit I want to do with. Maybe that's just something I'll have to wait and see though. I suppose I feel confident enough that I don't want to be loose for the sake of achieving some sexual fantasy. It'd be a shame not to achieve it, but if my priorities are as they are, all I can do is wait and see...

>>18387558
>>18387569

>mfw when you people are the reason I can't find any good straight furry porn.

anyway if you want to get out of this fetish addiction I've got something you could try.

look at the porn you find arousing and just try not to get aroused by it (don't look away, watch it but try not to get aroused). After that started jerkin the terkin but don't climax. Keep doing this until you find it increasingly difficult to actually find it sexually attractive. At the same time do the opposite to "normal" porn. Jerk off to it even if you don't find it attractive.

Please report back with results.

>>18388817
I figure if it comes to the point where I feel I really need to get out of that shit, I'll ask separately

Bumpin for the hell of it...

>>18388920
okay, have fun I suppose.

>>18388817
>cant find
e621 net?
There are still tons of hetero action as well?

>>18387501
This.

Having a fetish is pretty normal, OP.

As for meeting people, I don't know. I just went on a fetish dating website and laughed at stupid people from the sidelines. Eventually came across someone who I connected with. Met up, clicked instantly, and now we're engaged. He got me a Rosebud buttplug as an engagement gift. Love!

Just find a place to be open about your kinks, even if it's anonymously, and see whether you form any meaningful bonds.