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Is 19 too young to settle down? I'm moving out next year

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Is 19 too young to settle down? I'm moving out next year into my own flat. I have a job, a car and plenty of money. My girlfriend said she would like to move in and find her own job to contribute but I'm thinking I'm way to young for something this serious. Any advice or stories on moving out?
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>>18387350
Moved in with my boyfriend when I was 18 and he was 20, had been dating for 3 years. Still together 6 years later, still very happy.

He also bought me that hat for my birthday, lol.
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>>18387350
I got married at 19, and I am 33 now, and it's still the best thing I ever did.
BUT. When I did it I had no doubts, and we BOTH. Had jobs and depended on each other. its ok for one to out earn the other, but if you let someone move in, without any money or job, unless you're just expecting to support them, more often than not, you're going to have a bad time.

If they've never had a job and payed rent BEFORE, then there is no reason to believe, after they move in and live off your hard work, they will suddenly start erning.
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You're frogposting. You're too young.
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>>18387350
Wait until she has a job. Then do it.
Check though if your country/ state has common law marriage laws though. If it has, don't move in with her, or the state will see you as married and her elegiable for alimony once you lived together for a year.
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>>18387350
Are you planning on a university education and a white collar career? Then it is too young. Despite your age you are still a student in process of growing up.

Are you planning on no further education and a blue collar career, and do you have a job in your chosen field already? Then you're a grown-up.
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>>18387350
I would say yes. Me at 19 was super dumb, super naive boy who wouldnt even know what to do with girl if ever any were interested in him in the first place.

Just dont marry and have children until you are at least ~23 and you will be ok. If she wont turn crazy until then, impregnate her and marry her on spot.

Good luck!
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>>18387350
Your age doesn't matter, it's your job and money that matters. You have that so go for it.
My advice would be to look for an apartment you could afford on your own. Just in case your gf breaks up.
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>>18387350
Yout are too young.
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