So I'm planning on marrying my girlfriend late this year; but we've never had sex considering her religious background. The problem being, I'm incredibly insecure about my size, being a few cms below average, and knowing that, I'm afraid I won't be able to do anything to please her. I know it's a childish concern, and one that shouldn't inherently be a deal-breaker, but being exposed to so much media and porn, all that shame the below-average and often portray men to be handsome and perfect, I can't put this complex to rest.
Any /adv/ice?
has she seen your penzor?
>>18386428
If you're concerned about your size get really good at pleasuring her without your penis, ie oral, fingers, etc.
Look up tutorials and shit. Go onto an Ask The Opposite Gender Anything Thread and find out what turns girls on. When you two have sex for the first time be sure to ask her what she liked, what turned her on or off.
Communicate. Sure it may be awkward to ask but if you want to please her you gotta improve.
Also if she's a virgin and has never had sex with a guy before, she most likely has no idea what's a big dick or what's not
>>18386428
>>18386432
>marrying a girl who you havent even seen naked, let alone had sexual relations with
anon pls
Sounds like she'll love you. Since she's saving herself for marriage and she's marrying you which means she's found the "perfect" guy in her eyes. Don't worry
>>18386993
this
you've beaten the system because you're the only dick she gets, so it doesn't matter
learn to eat pussy... its really easy
I highly doubt she's going to be picky sexually if she's devoutly religious
>>18386993
>>18386999
Found the virgins. There is absolutely nothing that guarantees she won't cheat on him or leave him in the future. Furthermore there is a high risk of a bad sex life with her.
>>18386441
>>18386428
Eh ... Mate, your dick isn't the only thing that can please a woman:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dWCDF9Qd9LU
>>18386428
One of the reasons men used religion to keep women chaste before marriage is they have a small dick. Since she's never had one there is nothing to compare it with so she will think it is normal. Problem though is women talk and some friend of your fiancee will mention a big dick she took.
>>18386428
Complete honesty, a guys size doesnt matter much for female pleasure. Its usually difficult for them to finish in the first place. Using toys and hands goes a long way to fix that.
Don't worry about being small a ton of guys are and we usually get along just fine.