how do i stop getting into arguments with people? >inb4 just

Just say "OK"?

why and with whom do you get into arguments?

>>18381263
just say if

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1LHBxsDYavo

>>18381259
If someone says something you disagree with, instead of seeing it as a confrontation that you have to win (or lose) simply ask them to elaborate on their position.

>person makes claim
>why do you feel that way? based on what? what evidence do you have to back that up?

When you feel they've sufficiently supported their position if you still disagree then explain yours. The fact that you've allowed them to elaborate shows that you respect their thoughts at least somewhat and will give them the goodwill to hear you out and it will be a learning experience for everyone. If they seem close-minded or immature and the argument is not important just say "Oh I see.." and change the subject.

Go into conversations with the goal to connect through a mutual exchange of ideas and emotions and everyone wins. Go in with the attitude of winning or coming out on top and someone is going to get butthurt. Even if you're right and you btfo someone in an argument, they're likely just going to get butthurt and double down on their position along with seeing you as a confrontational jackass.

I learned all this from experience.

>>18381259

>inb4 the only actualy advice you can use

that being said, state your point, and never ever ever reiterate it. if they ask the same question or make the same point that you already argued against simply say 'i already made my point, lets move on'. if they refuse, you exit.

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>>18381259
So him, being sensible and reasonable (as well as this house I guess is the question of what ending they use as their canon base if it is simple fact, and I only noticed the locations, not really.

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>>18381259

>>18381341
>>>/facebook/

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>>18381259
Just let them talk,
if you want to be cheeky, start dropping questions like
>"That's a pretty intresting viewpoint, what makes you think that way?"
with the end goal to find their sources.

Sometimes, find the 20% of their viewpoint you agree with, and then go on a tangent with that.
You can often find something you agree on, and then talk about it for ages, escaping the topic you disagree with.