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>>18380991
She's a keeper, definitely keep her. If you care about having fun with your youth I think it's normal, go out have fun, really.

A solution is might be to go out have fun while keeping her. Have sex with others, but don't tell her keep it secret.
It's kinda like how married couple who seem like role model and raise their kids right but still have secret affair that'll go into their graves.

>>18381283
thanks a ton for the advice, don't want to be impulsive about this so really anything helps. your suggestion is a viable option for many, but I could never bring myself to cheat on her. cheers

>>18380991
>youth getting lost
Dont be idiot op. Do you know how other girls vaginas feel? Exactlx same as your gf. Somr girls are just more tight and some have better kegel muscles so it drains you a biz better.

But casual sex is overrated as fuck. You cant compare it with your gf sex you love. Dont be dumb, read what have you written about loving her and stick with it.

>scared of commitment
Dont marry until you decide you want children. And until you impregnste her, you can bail any day out. So no biggy. Until
>i love her so much
holds true, you DONT break up silly. As with the threesome part, never try to do it again, threesome can damage relationships very quickly in the samr way as cheating does. Seeing your partner to lust after somebodx else can be cery painful experience.

Tldr. Hug her, say her you love her and keep dating her and slowly but surely plan your future together like (job, home, number of kids, work, who will be stay at home, nancy etc).

Dont be scared of staying with one girl forever. It isnt that long and you have something most of us dont: lovely relationship.

Remember, you dont have to msrry now. Until you love her, you CANT break up. Buy her flowers and try
http://mojoupgrade.com/
and buy some adult toy like magic wand.

Have fun and good luck with your qtie.

>>18380991
Its tough man.

Im 30, 4 year (great and faithful) relationship.

With my highschool sweetheart, i had the whole "must fuck other women" problem.

And i did do it, it was great. But i can assure you it doesnt go away. The male mind is weird.

I still want to fuck others, id still love to play now and then and I still wonder about other women time to time.

The only difference is i know from experience how fleeting and meaningless that experience is. I know if cheat ill feel no different after, i wont have accomplished something, days later i wont feel as though im a better person, and i know it still wont go away. If anything ill feel guilt.

And if i stayed single i can fuck all i want, but ill still feel lonely and without a partner.

So i can offer you the perspective first hand, or you can try it yourself and learn from experience (the latter will stick in your mind better).

If you love her so much, this is as good as it gets, trust me. Avoid porn and anything that puts ideas in your head. Because it doesnt matter if you fucked one woman, two, or forty. Youre a male, you will always want more, and your alternative is the same insatiable hunger, yet alone.

If you were christian you *might* be culturally hardwired and brainwashed to be offput by the idea of extra marital relations. But it doesnt seem youre so lucky.

Stick with it until it doesnt work or youll regret it.

>>18381795
>>18381824
wow, I should really come on here more, you guys are super helpful. thanks for all the kind words, you guys are totally right, I really just needed to get out of my own head. I know I love her and I know I want to be with her; I don't necessarily know that I want sex with more women. I'm definitely still conflicted but I'm not going to break it off yet, especially after all we've been through, for something so silly. hopefully she's more receptive to the idea of group fun in the future, but if not I think I'll survive. just sucked to have an MFF slip right through my fingers.
also funny that you make that point about Christianity. Was raised in the church and got the fuck out of there as soon as I was confirmed.

>>18381875
Yeah man theres good people here sometimes.

Anyway, glad I could help. Give yo lady a big hug bruh.

>>18381875
>come here more
Take note that helpful anons are less and far between. So it can take a while.

>MFF slip
Seriously, dont push your girl into threesomes. It will damage her soul crazy bad. I dont have handy statistic ready about how successful are 3+ persons sex escapades in killing relationships, but it should be as high as cheating on your partner.

It is not worth it.
Take care.

>>18380991
>but we're both young. Insanely young. She's the only girl I've ever had full on sex with
The problem being?

>and I'm just not really sure I can commit to that being the case for my entire life
As long as you can that is more of a stupid fear than of a problem, isn't it?

>So.. do we break up?
So you throw away a perfectly fine relationship with a girl you "love" (would you consider/ act like this if you truly did) for a vague fear? For trying a new taste once that perhaps might disappoint you?

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>>18381875
>as soon as I was confirmed

Ayy. German Fags are always the worst hypocrites when it comes to this stuff. :p