I've been out of the city for a month (came home from uni) and my gf lives in the city. we skyped every day for hours and I came back once to meet for the day. I'm only 19 so not much money so going all that way was a big deal (3 hours away).
I came back yesterday to move into my new room in a house. It doesn't allow visitors so of course i stayed over at hers for the first night. she paid for my bus ticket which I appreciated and got her dinner. We woke up at 6 for her work and I had to make my way back to the house but first had to get my uni bus pass, basically around 3 hours walking. Then I had to unpack lifting heavy shit up a spiral stair case, get groceries, buy a bunch of shit and carry it home, etc.
"Hey anon, wanna go downtown today?" Downtown is 2 hours away by transit. She's already there cause of work.
I say I can't, I'm just too tired and need to rest and say I could meet her somewhere closer.
She starts going "no i dont want to see u for the whole week now" when I ask why she says "dont owe u explanations" and says "I can say no too" etc.
Is it me or is she being really childish? Or am I the bad guy here?
>>18378997
She's being childish. Suck punch that bitch in the cunt.
you just got shit tested in a big way. she wants to make sure the relationship is on her terms, not yours.
>>18378997
Yeah she's being a cunt. Could just be vaginal bleeding time or something. Give her a chance, and if she continues acting cunty just drop her.
>>18379123
She does this sort of shit a lot. So it's not unreasonable for me to be bothered by this? I have no experience and nobody in person to talk about this to so any help here is appreciated
>>18379138
>Is it unreasonable for me to be bothered when someone I care about and think cares about me acts like a five-year-old?
Gee whizz Billy, I dunno
>>18379149
THANK YOU
I needed confirmation that she's immature and in the wrong. no guilt about dumping her ass now
>>18379160
Wew bud a bit jumpy are we?
Just lay down the law, or the pipe. Whichever comes first. Show her that she's not the end all be all in the relationship and that they're supposed to be a balance.
Tldr dick her into her place
>>18378997
No, that's pretty lousy I get that from people too.